Wierd how love is

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I dated a girl throughout highschool we had a very close relationship .altho near the end of the relationship i started acting like a jerk we were still very close .since she had been with me throughout highschool i was her first,so she got curios and cheated on me a few time "putting very lightly"so i broke up with her . after that i was torn up about the whole situation so i started drinking and that lasted about 6 months. Heres where it gets weird ,her and her family moved 35 miles away and i started dating her old best friend.Well i ended up get my new girl friend pregnant .And since then its been 4 years weve been broken up .We didnt talk to eachother but as of a year ago i started having dreams about her and her being back in town . Every time i had this dream i would end up seeing her somwhere in town . This went on for several months until i got the courage to talk to her . She instantly said"wow nice to see you i had a dream you would be at the star rentals today." I was shocked and was to afraid to tell her i had the same dream.its still happening .My question is should i tell her and is it normal to dream like this

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  • jessica1068
    14 years ago

    awww it sounds like fate... your both having the same dreams, bless :) yeah its normal to have dreams like that, you must still care for her as your dreaming of her....but dont forget you have a new girlfriend now who is pregnant so if i was you i would just leave the other girl as your past as it was ages ago xxx

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  • PiAnt
    14 years ago

    It's very normal to retain feelings for people from previous relationships, and, no matter who you ask, or what answers you will be given, the only way to navigate through your relationships, is to feel your way through yourself.

    Keep in touch with your instincts. They will tell you if something is real or not, right or not.

    Don't listen to your mind.

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  • notTHEman
    14 years ago

    maybe you guys were meant to be or something. or something happened to both of you that reminded both of you about each other. maybe you both saw a commercial on tv that made you thik of one another, or maybe you both mutually felt that there was something in the relationship before that was left unfinished. dreams are a complicated thing, but it's normal to dream about THE girl

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