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there are two people i like. one is obviously interested and he has beautiful blue eyes and gorgeous teeth but i like another guy who im not sure is interested. but i think i might like him more, he just makes me laugh. should i date the first guy because i like him too or wait for the second guy to see wat happens?
| wait for other guy | 41 | |
| take first guy | 34 | |
| tell them straight up what you are thinking | 31 | |
| you. are. a. whore. | 34 | |
| other; leave comment | 8 | |
| take neither | 5 |
If a girl told me that she had trouble deciding between me and another guy, I'd make it easy for her and tell her to kindly fuck off. I think it would be pretty insulting to hear from a girl you like that you're not good enough to be her automatic choice.
Otherwise, there's a difference between dating and being a couple. You don't have to pledge dedication to either of them right now. You're free to date both at the same time and then let one of them go when you decide it's time to do the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing.
Always pick the second one. If you really liked the first one, you wouldnt have fallen for the second in the first place.
You are confused . What are your feeling? Ask yourself? It is not fair to the others involved to any ask this question.
i have the same problem, this girl likes me and i kinda like her, but this other girl i like alot more but im not sure if she really likes me or just likes me as a friend...so what i did was, i asked the one i wasnt sure liked me and made my discision off what she said... hope i helped
In my experience (and this applies to both sexes), unless the other person is already in a relationship/you're a creeper/there's some major factor like age, the other person will usually give you a shot. If you think you like the second person more, ask him out, and the worst he can do is say no, and what is more likely that he'll do is say yes, at least for one date.
Definetly take the first guy. You're probably like every other girl at your age, and you're most interested in the guy that's a mystery (everyone does it.) But you'll be kicking yourself if you don't just go for the guy who you know is interested.
"dating" must be how so many people end up cheating then. Tell the guy you like most that you like him. If he doesn't like you, see what happens with the other guy, but don't lead him on.
This is why people date. To see if you like each enough to be in the same room for long periods of time. Date them both, it's not like you have to commit to them forever on a first date.
Follow your heart. Take the gentleman you feel you can be your self around. The guy you are most relaxed with when you date, think about both of the gentlemen, and pick the one who are the most comfortable around. Where you can be you.