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25f here and why the fuck do hardly any girls talk on dating sites??? Why was a dating site even invented when you reach out to get nothing but silence or a few words then they ghost ya ass. I tried Zoosk, Bumble, HER, Tinder,okcupid, pof etc and chicks are frikn useless. I may as well date a dude :(
You might have been talking to dudes. Try a site you have to pay to join. The people on there are more serious about dating. Free sites suck and are loaded with fakes and trolls.
Go to a pay dating website. There are much classier people there. The free ones are filled with men and women who are complete nut jobs. I had to wade through a sea of shitty men and women to find the man I'm dating now. XD
I should probably remove my profile from Plenty of Fish. I'm not really in a place in my life where I care to date, but I just leave it there to browse on occasion...meh.
I met my husband on a dating site. Mind you, this was a long time ago and dating sites seemed to have changed in nature. Back then only people who actually wanted to go on dates would join a dating site. Now it seems everybody just joins them with no thought put into it.
Sorry my comment isn't more helpful lol, I just wanted you to know that they can work if you persevere. Good luck!
Thanks for letting me know swinging dick hahah crack up name but yeah so interesting, in fact I wish I were born back in your day, I'm very old fashioned I guess. Just because people had more morals back then as opposed to these days, no one has no morals.
There were more "rules" to dating, and the further back you go the more rules there were. It had it's pros and cons. It was nice to be treated like a lady and know where you stood with people. It was also nice that technology/social media didn't get in the way of things and ruin the magic.
It was not nice that I was expected to save it for marriage and considered a disgusting whore because I didn't. My husband never did either, in fact he slept with even more people than I did before we met, but got praise for that from his father.
Swings and roundabouts I guess... 😊
Dating sites really are as bad as people say. yeah at one point they might have been legit but these days it is the craigslist of the dating world.
Of course one tries different dating sites thinking there might be more options but then find out everyone else had the same idea.
Mostly losers. Such fine catches as -
1) Patricia the punching bag (seems to find all the abusers)
2) Danielle the drunkard
3) Britney the baby machine
4) Linda the lard ass
5) Helen the hoe bag
6) Fiona the flake
7) Pennie the pill popper
Of course all these "zeros" have high standards. You have to have a job, your own teeth, not too much of a criminal record, like kids, and understand that she is NOT going to put out ever.
It is like BITCH yo stankin-ass coochie ain't THAT good.
Gotta have all your teeth what the fuck ever! I'm sure!
It's like going to a really bad and awkward job interview...
I tried a dating site back when I was in college one time and the girls (assuming they were girls) would ask more questions than actual employers... Got my job as a car salesman with less interrogation XD
You also forgot to mention you need to make minimum 200 grand a year, love to travel, be good with animals, speak 6 languages, know C++, be good at stone carving, have the body of a supermodel and the dick of a horse, even if the "fine catches" won't put out.
One could probably get a job as a secret service agent to the president with less interrogation than some of these people be doing.
the reason these hoebags want some of those things you brought up;
200 grand a year - to support her and her six kids.
Love to travel - She will need frequent rides to the welfare office.
Be good with animals - she doesn't want anyone trying to kill the rodents infesting her house.
Speak 6 languages - She has six "baby daddies" all of whom speak different languages.
Know C++ - The street name of her meth dealer.
Be good at stone carving - She wants to bury and have a proper head stone for her future aborted kids.
Have the body of a supermodel and the dick of a horse - Well, who wouldn't?
So let us step on YOUR turf for a second - The Mercedes GLS seats 7 passengers. If you or anyone would be interested in such a catch, that SUV would be great to haul her and her six kids about town. Food stamps, probation officer visits, normal chores.
GLS is too big and handles like a large van. If I had the money for it, I'd buy my girlfriend one. I want to be the rich scumbag that buys his 40kg girlfriend (and future wife) an oversized SUV she can't properly drive, or see out of. XD
On a more realistic scale, if I had to pick an SUV for me and my girlfriend for our future family, it'd be a Range Rover Velar. Sleek, cool, all wheel drive and doesn't scream soccer mom.
Also needless to say, if you resort to single moms, you've had it... It's the saddest and most pitiful sight for a man... But I'm sure many betas would love a crack at our fine lady crackhead with 6 children and a rat infestation.
For the beta male dating aforementioned woman - I have seen it a couple times. Here is a story -
I used to be in the military years ago. One guy in my unit was last named "Bridge". Nothing strange about that but anyways -
He was one of those religious folks who thought everything was a sign of the devil and the rapture was going to happen any day now (been 24 years now and nothing). He often tried to preach this stuff to me. He also married some woman with four kids.
So I was telling some of the other people in our unit about Bridge's preaching. One guy goes, "Ha ha, Bridge thinks he is in hell because he goes home to four kids". Another laughed and said, "That WOULD be hell!"
AAANNNDDDD... Bridge owned a mini-van. Not quite a Mercedes, more like a Dodge Caravan. Yeah, the epitome of uncool.
wtf is radio silent you fogey old ham, and isn't this that racist lesbian catfishing bitch from before? if so you deserve to be alone.
I can't see the post on my main. Must be the same fogey old ham who said he's leaving IIN.
Lmao
I'm not familiar with them outside of these posts, is it the same guy who posts about hating their step kids? and possibly the one who used to post about being FTM, hating milennials and ghosting their gf. so many angry fake-lesbians on this website. they probably all trace back to the same one though.
There are a lot of people that go on there just for verification of their looks, getting a match is simply an ego boost.
Try a matchmaker. A human will do a better job of matching profiles than a soulless algorithm.. maybe.
What's the worst could happen.
The problem with those, if you are talking real-life business, is that they tend to charge a LOT. I think back in the late 90's they wanted $1500 to introduce you to five or six different people.
Nosy old church ladies do it for free. They're always offering up their relatives for dates.
Thank you. I now have evidence you are trying to kill me. Yes, this made me laugh damn near to death!
Umm, what church by the way? I am asking for a friend.
On a serious note, i was curious about the user name meaning? Mine is about L'eggs pantyhose. One of the styles (model if you will) is 91200.
I smashed my keyboard out of frustration and thought it was just too snazzy to correct.
When I used to go to church as a kid, all the old ladies kept trying to corner my cousin so they could set up dates with their granddaughters and nieces. I have fond memories of giving up his hiding spots.
I remember when I used to go on dating sites and after a while just ghost someone (liked how you put that BTW XD), it was because when I checked his profile photo or bio, it wasn't to my liking, or he couldn't type proper english, or was rude to me, or he flirted with me from the start or wanted to sext. If I remember more reasons I'll update this post.
women block men super fast because so many men on dating sites are complete assholes, don't seem genuinely interested, or ask for nudes right away. consider why a woman might not respond. maybe they found someone they're more interested in, or maybe they just don't check their account. there are many reasons.
Try Brenda! My friend has been married to the best woman ever for nearly 2 years now.
Dating sites suck.
To many posers.
You find out so much more with 5 minutes in person.
I have no problem dating a dude.
But, that's me.
No easy answers.
Keep fit, keep a fat wallet, keep your options open.
Good women are out there.
I've met really nice girls in grocery shopping.
Question is, do you have game?
Hate to say it.
The Internet is full of some B.S.
There are some good people.
Unfortunately they are as dishonest with you as they are with themselves.
My all time best advice.
If a first date doesn't work.
Just drop it.
Don't allow yourself to be guilted,or drawn into a second date etc.
Not even if it's been awhile.
Leeches latch on. Worse than ticks.
More like that thing from a pod on aliens.