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Why do people ghost these days? Is it simply because they lost interest? I’m on about dating and everything is going amazing then next thing they say they can’t do it and disappear or just leave with no reason... with no warning.
Do men get scared or something ?
I ghost people because I’m awful at breaking things to people gently, I find it’s better if I just don’t say anything rather than fuck it up with my poor communication skills.
There is exactly 1 reason I ever ghost somebody, and that's when they do something that pisses me all the way off, and I don't have the power to calmly tell them I need space for a bit.
I ghost a guy that I’ve gone on a date with if I decide I’m really not interested in anything with them... it’s just because I’m a wuss and I would rather ghost than break it to them harshly that it’s not gonna happen
Too many people see it easier to avoid or run away than face someone else and take responsibility. Texting and social media have made relationships easily trashable. Why call or see someone face to face, when you can just..Go away and not respond? It's an immature, irresponsible way of telling someone, hey, it's been great, but just not working out for me.
I think it's worse when they do it, you get past it and move on, then..Hear from them again. I had that with a beautiful, but but nuts, woman I dated. Fashion plate type, the nails had to match the outfit all the time, and she always said she "had to look good on my arm", which I liked. Things were great for maybe 6 months, then, thanks to other issues she had, that was it..She stopped responding to even my texts. I started dating someone else, was doing fine, then, one night..Get the text from nails-outfit woman, saying missed me, and apologizing for things that went on and going off her meds. Didn't say a word about just avoiding me and was very general about her ongoings, but..I had to tell her..I'm with someone else, sorry.
This happened to me with a girl I was talking to and we had plans to meet up At the mall and hang out but when I showed up I wanted for 3 hours no joke and then texted her back and she never responded since that was like almost a month now or more and I really like her and thought she would never do such a thing should I wait and give her time or just forget because I don’t know if I can 😓
I would talk about my own experience. There are guys I went out with and even slept with then simply wasn't interested anymore even when they were okay guys. Sometimes people just lose interest.
I would ghost someone if I didn't want to deal with that person. I suppose I tend to ghost people who can't no for an answer. If someone is trying to talk to me in a persuasive manner like a salesman, then I think it's best not to talk to the person.
I had a guy do this to me not even a month ago; totally ghosted me on plans we had just made the night before, and hasn't spoken to me since.
He did admit to a friend, who passed it on to me, that he's just too beta and didn't know how to push things further. Maybe the same for your case?