Why would she friend request me?

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3 years ago I had a really good friend. We had soo much fun and did everything together. I would always hear from our other friends that she spoke of me a lot when i wasn't around and thought so highly of me. I ended up falling for her but she rejected me, which was fine. We moved on until one day I didn't hear from her and tried calling, texting, and left vm messages. I get a text from her 3 months later telling me she's moved to canada.

This crushed me because i she was my best friend and I still cared about her. when she did this i assumed I was disposable to her and stopped talking to her. I heard she moved back about 2 years ago and we ended up running into eachother a few times. I ignored her because we were no longer friends as far as I was concerned. I caught her staring, and when I would talk to women in the bar she would start talking to dudes. That didn't bother me, but I couldn't help notice. Didn't seem like a coincidence to me. Anyway, I posted a photo which got a lot of "likes" from mutual friends. All of a sudden, she adds me. I've come up with some possible answers, but
Now i'm confused.

she's changed her mind and now she's interested 11
she wants as little "enemies" as possible 2
other 5
she wants to rub her happiness in my face 4
she's curious how i'm doing 18
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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    after running into you she realizes the good friend she lost

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    • Short&2thepoint
      11 years ago

      If only. It was probably because he started being a dick to her.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    All those options are just possible outcomes. Neither you, or anyone on IIN knows the answer. So either block her, or decline her, and see what happens. Or accept and see what happens. You could also take the angry "what the hell?" message, approach and see what happens. Either way, this matter is undecided because nothings happened yet.

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    • plum6
      11 years ago

      exactly, this could go either way. The poster is obviously still sexually interested and therefore might be interpreting the behaviour of the girl more egocentrically than he should. On the other hand, the encounters mentioned seem to be somewhat related, which could possibly lead to a deeper relationship.

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