Why would she avoid me?

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I was with a girl a few months ago and we were really into each other. In the end, she texted me saying she wasn't ready for a serious relationship and left me. Today i saw her at campus in the alleyway and she was coming straight at me, i wasn't looking in her direction but i caught glimpse of her and she was staring right at me. I turn my head and she was rushing out my way before she could reach me. She literally did a right turn and went the complete opposite way. She thinks i didn't see her. I was thinking about confronting her and asking why or what made her do that, but i need YOU'RE anonymous help.
Now the question i have for you ladies and gents is the following. Why do you think she did that? Why couldn't she just pass right by me? Is she ashamed? Is it normal?? Anything that comes to ur mind even if ur male or female, i'd like to know what you think. Thank you -A

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    She texted you..

    She was rushing out of my way..

    Sounds like she avoided you because she was embarrassed about how she text you to break things off instead of talking to you face to face. Now she can't face you. She isn't ashamed of you she's ashamed of herself. At least that's what I get out of it and it's sounds very normal to me.

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    • plum6
      11 years ago

      Agreed! She probably had second thoughts how close you two have gotten and was simply the embarrassed when seeing you. Honestly really kind of got denied by her in the text-message and she probably did not feel like going into it any further.

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  • Antir0b0t
    11 years ago

    She just didn't want to have to talk to you. Sounds pretty simple to me.

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  • Tarkio
    11 years ago

    I think she is insecure. Otherwise she would at least acknowledge you. She is not worth worrying about and you probably would not want to be in a relationship with her until she becomes stronger in herself.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Thanks for the advice man really helped.

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  • zzw30
    11 years ago

    It's just awkward man

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  • Tarkio
    11 years ago

    Were you too needy or refused to let her go?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      No i dont think i was needy. I did tell her though i was pissed because she left me. Not pissed just an "angry dissapointment"

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  • kittylitter101
    11 years ago

    Eh she doesn't wanna talk to you

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  • anti-hero
    11 years ago

    She's just not that into you.

    Maybe you are goofy and you smell like hotdogs and onions?

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