Why people don't care.

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I love the guy but he lives in another country we never met each other but we use to talk through all means of communications. We love each other very much. He love and cares for me so do I. I was studying and I told him that i need time to complete my studies and also i have a lot of responsibilities of my parents and siblings because i am the older sister and how can i get selfish when i know that my family needs me. He was okay with everything in the starting and said that he loves me and will wait for me. But after few months he totally seems changed person. He start using harsh language with me an said a lot of bad things that i never expected from him. Start ignoring me and said to me stop calling and texting because i don't wanted to talk. He get mad at me, gets angry but I am the one who always said Sorry. Sometimes I also say things in anger that I don't have to. but I asked him all the time that what happened? and all but he ignored my all questions. We start arguing on each and everything. After a while he just said that he wanted to get marry but he thought my parents will not allow us to get married so there is no point of talking. Also blocked me from everywhere. I truely love him and said that i will talk to my parents about our relation but please wait for the right time. But he is not willing to listen even a single word from me. how he can leave me like that? I cant able to focus on my studies because my mind is filled with number of questions that why he have done this to me. He loved me then what happened to him that he don't wanted to talk. He said he loves me than? it is love? I need answer from him but he is not saying anything. :(

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  • EdWall234
    12 years ago

    Love is when you want the best for someone, not when you want them.

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  • sograceful
    12 years ago

    If he truly cared about you, he wouldn't treat you this way. He sounds like he doesn't even want to fix it. I would take it as a learning experience and move on, leave this loser behind.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    Firstly you never met this guy. You know it's a thing being able to touch,, kiss and make love and another just texting etc.. Dont make such a big deal about this. Stories like that most often don't work. You're not the first and you are surely not the last.Start living a true life, meet new people. Do something real and focus on your studies.

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  • 800imawesome
    11 years ago

    Sounds like Imthegirlfriendofadoucheitis. I prescripe telling him he's autistic, and deserves a foot up the ass.

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  • maham
    12 years ago

    he wants me but I dnt know why he is angry with me.

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  • maham
    12 years ago

    I dont wanna think bad about him.

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  • Its_Called_Love
    12 years ago

    Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't really want to be with you?

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  • thinkwithlogics
    12 years ago

    Obviously your young so I'll go easy on you.The chances of a long distance relationship working is very slim.Once u get a little older your going to realize this is just a faze no matter how much u don't want it to be now.Take it from me ive been there,after awhile young man will want to spend time with the lady he's into.Your mistake was when u told him about needing to be there more for your family and studies..True their both important but you should have figured a way to add him in the mix since you know you can't see him or have better communicate better,even if you told him you can talk more on the weekends or atleast as much as you can.I bet thats when it went downhill for him.Also possible thats when he found someone closer .

    Bottom Line is that the relationship you known was doomed from the start.If you was older it might have worked out better but still wouldn't have had a successful rate.Your young finish school and be a good sibling boys will come down the road anyway.Look at it this way if u need motivation to stop thinking of someone you only know on the phone....You said he ain't thinking about you right?We'll you'll be a stupid brainless moron to lose sleep over someone who dont feel the same way as you feel for him ..think about that.

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  • maham
    12 years ago

    its not easy.

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  • maham
    12 years ago

    But its very hard for me to forget him I tried my level best but cnt help with it. I really love him and waiting that he might come back. The only thing I am concerned about that how he is okay with everything and can live without me.

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  • BrotherDan
    12 years ago

    People change over time. It can be hard to understand why, especaily if you don't see them often or at all. The best course of action I can think of is to have a long conversation about where you both are in life. Sometimes these things can be worked out. If you don't match up anymore, perhaps it's best if you end the relationship.

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  • zchristian
    12 years ago

    He is eighter very tired of waiting or maybe something has happened that he may not be comfortable talking about then again maybe he isnt as good as you think he is there are many possibilities and about getting married it is way to soon...

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