Why my personality is so weak ?

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I don't know what to say but i feel that i'm not a person with a strong personality, there's something wrong about me i cant describe, it's like i cant talk to people in a good way, when someone talks to me especially new people i feel very stressed and talk very stupidly, it's like i dont organize my words and say stupid things like :
New collegemate : hey, what's up maan ?
Me " get shocked and stressed " : hi, where ... what... i mean how are you doing !!!!
- ah very good, just chilling, what about you ?
Me : aah nothing much, just coming and attending my classes and try to understand something and learn .......
So its like i get stressed i can't say words right, i can't open subjects to make the conversation go longer, cant make jokes and make everyone laugh, and also my voice is not that smooth, there are some people that talk in a way you love to listen to them because of their charme and strong personality but i'm not like that, and because of that i cant get a lot of freinds while i'm surrounded with a lot of people, what should i do to make myself more confident and social person ??

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  • Forestheart
    8 years ago

    Working out will have some effect on your self confidence but it won't do magic for your personality. I'm confident about being the funniest guy in college and I always target the lecturers. You can try that out. You can also try practicing organized and complicated lines. To do that you have to imagine a situation you're likely to face in near future. In addition to that try reading some good psychological books the more you know about psychology the more interesting your personality will be.

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  • Short4Words
    8 years ago

    Think about it a lot less and just do what's comfortable to you. If you go out trying to be charming and seeking popularity it's gonna come off awkward. Allow yourself to have an awkward conversation if there isn't any common interest because not everyone is going to like you or click with you right off the bat.

    It might also help to make new friends in a club that you're interested in. That way it wouldn't be so hard to strike up or maintain a conversation.

    I get people stunned all the time too it just means I haven't talked to many people lately.

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  • D'lirium
    8 years ago

    Get more friends.

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  • HiAGAIN10
    8 years ago

    Discover who are, and be confident. I didn't know who I was until a few years ago. I took chances on things that I normally wouldn't.

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