Why men are attracted to women?

Why do we men waste our time thinking about women? What they bring is only disturbance to our happy life, then why? I sometime think that women are a product of men's fantasy. I find every girl same. Acting sweet and lovely.

What we men always ask them is little love and sex, nothing else.But most of them always fail to do so. Neglecting every effort of us.

I am not anti-women , yes I admit there life is difficult. But question here is, why men run after them?

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  • dappled

    When they do something slightly embarrassing and rather than get angry or deflect attention to someone else, they just laugh about it.

    When you're at a wedding or a funeral and the person getting married or buried meant something special to you, and a woman looks over and makes eye contact with you as if to say, "I'm looking over to check you are okay, and I want you to see me checking so that if you're not okay, you at least know I'm checking because I care".

    When you make them laugh so much that they make a snort sound or a grunt like a pig and it makes them start laughing all over again.

    When you've missed them and you meet up again and go to hug them and they press the entire front of their body against you, and you know they've missed you too.

    When they're still upset about the little boy who fell down the well, even when it turns out the boy was never down the well, but trying to get his parents on TV because he thinks that makes his family important.

    When they're first interested in you (before you begin dating) and you've noticed about six times that they've seen you and then when you go up to them, they act surprised like, "Oh! You're here! I didn't see you come in".

    When you see them with a sick animal and pure instinct has taken over and it's no longer about how someone acts or gender roles or anything like that; it's about what her gender has been and always will be.

    When you've spoken on the phone and you realise after hanging up that you forgot to say you love her, so you phone back and she's surprised like she's expecting bad news and you tell her you just rang back because you forgot to say you love her. You never expect it to mean what it seems to mean.

    When she looks you directly in the eye and doesn't look away, that challenge that says, come on, come and get me now, come and conquer me, come and plant your flag, come and make me want you like I know you want me.

    When, in the shoe shop, she asks your opinion on the seven millionth pair on her feet that day, even though she clearly isn't listening to your opinion. If you're mean, you can wait until you get home and then ask her what your opinion was on the shoes. Don't do that, though.

    When someone produces a camera and her first glance is towards you, to work out how you should present yourself, how she should stand to show that you are with her and you are happy about it. Miraculously, it works nearly every time, even when the relationship is over and you both know it.

    When you wake up in the middle of the night and wonder what's dragging at your right arm. After a few tentative movements, you realise you are holding hands with her. And you know it was probably her who did that in her sleep. And in your own sleep, you let her.

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    • Justsomejerk

      This should be on a plaque.

      Question answered.

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    • Captain_Kegstand

      Well, I was going to comment, but who the hell can follow that? Jesus dude that sounds like something out of the beginning of a blockbuster romantic movie! (the kind where she doesn't die at the end, fuck a walk to remember)

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      • NeuroNeptunian

        A Walk to Remember depressed the hell out of me.

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        • Captain_Kegstand

          I know right? That whole movie, and all that work for them to get together, and its all sweet and cute.

          Them BAM! she is dead, thanks for wasting your time!

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          • NeuroNeptunian

            I hate how the father wouldn't even let them screw. Fuck you, old man, I'm going to die of leukemia and you're telling me that I can't even get some cock?

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            • Captain_Kegstand

              I just choked on my sandwhich a little bit when I read that! Thats good stuff lolz.

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      • dappled

        Heh, they were all from personal experience although I should point out that the one with the pretending to be surprised someone was there was my friend about another friend as opposed to about (but I did witness it) and the penultimate one about photos was friends also (at a wedding) and again only witnessed by me rather than involving me. :)

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        • Captain_Kegstand

          Very well written though, I left this question open on my personal computer at home just because I never close out of what I am doing. One of my female freinds was reading through it and said "who is this dappled guy and is he single?"

          You silver tounge'd devil you lolz

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          • dappled

            Well, at least that's an improvement on the last time it happened. The eighty year old mother of my now-retired boss was reading an email over his shoulder at home and kept commenting on my writing style. No woman is safe from my prose! :D

            P.S. Seriously, I pay scriptwriters for all this stuff. :P

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            • Captain_Kegstand

              Lolz she is quite pretty for the record, so you can feel good about that.

              As far as paying script writers, i'd focus their talents on web sights that aren't anonymous so that when you happen to impress a female, you can find her! lolz

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      • KeddersPrincess

        LOL, that's what I said :D

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    • NeuroNeptunian

      ...This.
      I didn't think that there were still people on this site that had anything but mean things to say about women, haha. Very nice.

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      • Captain_Kegstand

        There are a few men on this sight that have nice things to say about women, we just happen to be few and far between!

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        • NeuroNeptunian

          Yeah, this site is seriously a misogynist hot-spot. I'm a bit of a misogynist myself but even I have browsed on this website and seen things that made me think that the poster either has serious Mommy issues, is a closet homosexual that is trying to self-justify their lack of attraction to women, lives in a crack town where everyone is fucking nuts, everyone including the woman, or found a girl that was only half interested in him, claimed her as the love of his life and 2 weeks later got dumped for a gorgeous, athletic guy because he was too possessive, whiny and insecure but in his head he was dumped for being "too nice"/creeps out every chick that they fucking talk to and if you met the guy IRL you wouldn't blame the girls for being creeped out.

          Wow. I'm smoking some good shit right now, that just flowed out. Roll tide.

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          • Captain_Kegstand

            I agree with you completely, and I really need to get my hands on some of whatever the hell it is that your smoking!

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          • Congratulations! finally a looser like you can also can judge people and write shit.

            Owner of this post made it explicit that he's not an anti-women then why ? Oh yeah, you got the chance to be the hero you want to be in real life but too afraid to be.

            Think before you comment,you can make someone become terrorist and blow your fuckin' colony of pigs. Then you will complain again, whine,cry,yell,die die die. You'll find yourself baffled and dismayed.

            You sick be real, give people truth they ask no one want your shit. Keep that to yourself.

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            • 1000yrVampireKing

              Men and women have sex to make babies. How do you not understand where babies come from? That is why nature designed us to be motivated and prepared to carry and create children. How do you think the species lives on. That is how! If not our species would die.

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            • NeuroNeptunian

              What the hell are you talking about? I was describing the typical misogynist on this site. I didn't mention the OP in any way nor did I say anything that would imply that the OP is a misogynist.

              You must have some issues, bro. Good luck with that colony of pigs. If anything I write makes someone a terrorist, it is only proof that people are way too sensitive and should stop giving others such easy control over their emotions.

              And I can't understand half of what you're saying. Go home.

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      • dappled

        It's weird. I knew I was being nice, but I was just being honest too. :)

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    • Uzzie101

      First comment that's brought a tear to my eye, dappled you're simply a legend on this site.

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      • dappled

        Aww, thankya! I do like to pull out something like this once every six months or so to remind people I'm still here. :P

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    • Beautiful

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    • Gideonbeliever

      Softcock

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  • GuessWho

    Reproduction.
    Men need women in order to reproduce.

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  • nightmare28

    Because without women life would be a real pain in the ass.

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    • Not if you are the pitcher.

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      • nightmare28

        Yes, but things will still be shitty.

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        • That we can agree on.

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  • raggamuffin

    Sound's like someone needs to get laid. Guarantee that'll answer it for ya.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    This is a man's world...but it would be nothing without a woman or a girl :D:D:D

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  • Biology.

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  • davesumba

    The entire point of life, from a biological/instinctual/darwinistic point of view, is to be attracted to a mate, so that you can then reproduce and pass on your genes.

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  • EndlessSuffering

    How gay LOL

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  • IIN2?uestionlife

    Because we're gluttons for punishment.

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  • YawningBober

    They are too cute. :-p

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  • mmmmm:)

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  • bigtoy

    I find myself asking this same question every day. We're often unhappy with them and often unhappy without them. It's a real dilema...

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