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I been in this relationship a for the past year now and we have been living together for 3 months.
I have never cheated on her. About last month she started asking if I'm seeing other women and I'm that I'm hidden thinks from her. Its starting to get old now.
I don't know what to do
| Should iJust do it | 2 | |
| Dump her | 10 | |
| Work it out | 21 | |
| Stay with her | 1 | |
| Find a new girl friend | 10 |
Whatever you do don't cheat. Just because someone falsely accuses you of doing something terrible doesn't give you a reason to do that terrible thing.
If you want to stay with this chick then I suggest ya'll go to couples counseling to see if she can get past this paranoia of her's. If she can't get past her delusional thinking and or you don't wanna work it out then leave her, but whatever you do don't. Don't sink down to that level, it will only confirm her fears. Be the best person you can be for your own sake!
Well check your behavior. Maybe you're doing things that upset her and make her think this. Maybe you're not in contact with her enough, maybe you act distant when you guys are hanging out in person, maybe youre not changing the things you've apologized for and she's tired of that, etc. So it could be your behavior and you're not even aware of it. Guys are very oblivious but if they care, they will make an effort to improve their act.
Why would you put 'should I just do it' as one of the options. I can't answer your question seriously now.
Oh boy. She sounds very insecure and the jealous type. Often times the accuser has a guilty conscience. Don't put up with that shit.
She loves you and afraid that she might lose you. You should work it out. Talk to her and assure her that you are not cheating or will not cheat. She must also make an effort to learn to trust you.
Humpty Dumpty Syndrome. Been there & welcome to hell! Prepare for every aspect of your behavior and social interaction to be constantly scrutinized and questioned. I couldn't do it. I expected to start a relationship with a person interested in sharing wonderful experiences and building mutual trust / respect. Instead it was me wasting time constantly trying to rebuild his already broken ego. Unless you plan to waste your future defending things you haven't done. Not worth it. Save your sanity. Move out.
Something is making her feel insecure. Figure that out and you'll have your solution.