Why is it not enough

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I have the most wonderful family anyone could ever ask for. I got this horrible problem i need help with. My brother has a girlfriend he has been with her forever and we even use to be friends at one time but more like a party friends. Now i have a boyfriend and we have been together for 4 years and at any family gathering i hate that she is around. She will find anyway to bend over in front of him (my man) and i think its nasty. I mean come! She should have more class! Little things she does bugs me like i have long hair hers was short i used to have bangs but i let them grow back because my boyfriend didn't like them but i though they were cute anyways now she has bangs and she is growing out her hair too. Its not only that on a camping trip my family went on everyone was drinking and this bee punched my mom in the face for no reason!!! So seeing her at every family gathering makes me not want to go i don't like the sight of her anymore. What can i do???

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Develop allies in your family to protect your family by dealing directly & effectively with her. Start by talking to your mom about this. After being assaulted she probably has some pretty similar concerns. Tell her how you feel & why.

    I'll bet there are others in the family this girl is mistreating. Time to circle the wagons as a family, have a meeting without your brother, and take stock of how much damage she is doing. Come up with a mutually agreed upon plan.

    Put it on the line: this girl is using a kindness as a guest in your family to destroy it. It is time for the family to acknowledge her as a problem and decide what to do.

    Just doing that will fix that bitch - she is using everyone's goodwill and politeness to get away with bad behaviour. Once she realizes you are all on to her and will not tolerate it the jig will be up.

    Talk to your bf too. Get him to speak up. He can say quite loudly and publicly "Why are you constantly revealing your breasts? I don't want to see them!" if thats what she is doing - or whatever.

    The point is to flush the little tart out & deal with her behaviour.

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    • LoveLVR
      14 years ago

      That is really great advise....Thank You!!

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  • nothing2
    14 years ago

    its no big deal. i bet she's not even that hot. acting that way.

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  • PiAnt
    14 years ago

    You seem to be feeling a little insecure with yourself with regards to this girl, but you know you can't control what others do.

    Have you talked with your boyfriend about the way she acts?

    I'd ask him to listen to your fears/annoyances about the situation, and he will probably reassure you. It probably also makes him uncomfortable too.

    If you're feeling more secure after clearing the air about this, you (and your boyfriend) can make light of it, and it won't bother you so much.

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