Why is he so happy about moving with me to a new house, its so weird!

Get prepared for the fun world of sex trafficing.

You stated "age is knowledge." And that's correct. You will regret this decision somewhere down the line because you don't have the life knowledge to consider this situation. Move in after 5 months? Away from family, friends, and school? No car? Sounds like you're kinda trapped? With a man who is old enough to be your grandpa? You're already stating that youre concerned as to why he's moving so fast. That's intuition. Don't ignore it! Plenty of guys can make you feel good and respect you who are much more age appropriate. Who knows what this guy is up to. I'd bail! Fast!

your scaring me, I mean no offense to the old dude but i read this and was like' WTF!' I mean your young and trusting but he... I'm sorry to assume things just because hes a lot older and offering a 19 yo to come live with him who has almost no fast way of escaping or leavin and- whatever, just dont be in the news ok.

No no no no no no!!!!!!! This sounds suspicious. Please dont move with him. You never know what he's up too. He can be one of those guys that sell woman like in the movie "taken". Please don't go with him!

I agree with the above comments.
1. There's a huge age gap
2. You just met this man. 5 months ago!!!!!
3. He's smirking and trying to persuade you to move in with him. Far away from your family/friends.

Doesn't that make Signals of warning go off in your head?! Something is disturbingly fishy about his motives/actions. It sounds like he's trying to trap you. He also seems to make more money than you so, at some point he might try to threaten you with that as well. Break it off with him and tell someone you can trust about all of this. Don't do it! I'm sure you'll find someone better for you and please stay in school!

You mentioned you wanted to get your OWN place so that you could be INDEPENDENT.

If you move in with him it won't be yours and you won't be independent. I've learned that lesson the hard way, please try to listen to what you originally wanted to do before he got you off track.

I'm so glad you didn't do it!! This guy sounded like he definitely had some ulterior motives!! I fear you'd have ended up in the news for sure!!!

you thank you so much!!
I never follow threw and moved with him.
He was actually just trying to get me to fall for his trick.
He made it a game but i didnt notice i was winning.
I ended up splitting an apartment with my nephew and sister and am now attending stony brook.
The guy was mad that i decided to not move in with him. I told him '' listen you did your life now im doing mines, let me live''

Btw to the girl who said gold digger??
Hunny if i would be digging it will be my own gold. i got my own things. get a life.

Elohel, golddigger

I've been in a somewhat similar situation a few years back at the age of 18 but the male I talked to was about 15 years younger and lived across the country. I wouldn't suggest it. At least give it some time. Maybe don't move out on your own yet. I left home at 19 and it was hard only because of the bills. I dropped out of school too.

You need more experience in life before you move in with someone like that, also. He won't appreciate your nativity with time and you won't appreciate him looking down on you with experience.
It's better to find someone your own age so you can both grow together. I'm dating a great guy my age. You're rushing. Slow it down, you're only young.

*man

Get your education so you can be smart enough to make decisions like this.

Besides, if he croaks, you'll be left stranded with no education or support network.

Just saying.

Sounds like he is a smart enough mam to know he has found a young, naive girl that isn't grown up enough or smart enough to know better.