Why is everyone so mean?

I walk around school doing nothing and people see me and start calling me names and crud like that. Some of them are friends of people I know. Those people I know just randomly decided they don't like me. I swear i never did anything wrong. I give my opinions on things sometimes, though, and what I'm guessing is that they didn't like them or something and then just began hating me. Could this be true? I mean, people call me the b word, tell me to go f myself, and to go die in a hole, and they tell me that no one loves me. I mean, why do people do this? Is there something in their brain that say, "Wow, this is really mean. Maybe I should stop." I mean, sometimes I cry because of the means things they've said. Why do people do this? Are there 2 species of humans like there is of dogs, but good and bad? Is it normal to think this way? THIS is one of the reasons that I seriously WANT humans to not exist anymore. Life would be so much more balanced if humans didn't exist anymore. But, is it normal to think this way?

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Comments ( 22 )
  • dappled

    People are mean because they're scared and insecure and they think pulling someone else down makes them look better. It doesn't. It just makes them look mean.

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  • Geneva5

    Extreme violence towards them is an option ?

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    • Bartholomew

      I believe it's always an option.

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      • Geneva5

        I believe slaming your nuts in the door is also always an option ?

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        • Bartholomew

          Bahahahahaha. Not if you want to have kids.

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          • Geneva5

            Considering I cut my dick off with scissors made from Lego / I doubt I will be having any children. Time for my crack pipe now :)

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            • Bartholomew

              Which you'll be making out of K'nexs,right? Gotta get brand coverage.

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  • They are mean because you haven't beat the snot out of them yet. Next time someone is rude to you for no reason, break their legs with a chair.

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    • NoOneIsNormalo_0

      Umm....not thanks...I mean I really WOULD like to do that, but....no....just, no...

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  • Dreamsao

    Next time theyre rude to you, just shrug them off. Then go get you a donut and watch netflix and have a beautiful day. Invite their brother/ sister over (whichever you're into) and netflix and chill with them. Screw the brother or sister then tell them about it the next day laughing. They'll hate your guts but at least now they actually have a reason.

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  • EmoGoddes666

    SMOKE WEED EVERYDAY

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  • sikfrik

    Don't cry because of them. It makes them feel better.

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  • iwantanswers

    I don't think you did anything wrong. It's just that people NEED someone to pick on, to stump into the ground. Unfortunately, they choose nice and kind people for that.

    I don't really like people too anymore, I mean a lot of people are selfish, slutty and shallow nowadays, the only thing they care about, is themselves! Humans are destroying this planet, for what? For money! What kind of world is this!?

    But I also think that people don't really realise how much their words can hurt.. I don't think they know how much they hurt you. Maybe they know they hurt you, but not that bad, that you'll be fine.. But they don't know a thing, they are just too busy with themselves.

    I was bullied too when I was younger. Now I'm 18 and I'm happy. I thought things would never get better, but they did. People saying mean things to me, just made me want to proof that they were all wrong!

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  • Bartholomew

    Are you in high school? If you are, remember that there is a whole world and life to live afterwards. So look forward to it! In fact, the majority of your life will probably be spent outside of high school therefore you shouldn't let the things or people there define you. And they won't if you don't let them.
    I didn't have any problems like this in high school but I hated it anyways so I got into a joint enrollment program and went to college full-time before I graduated. Maybe look into something like that if your difficulties feel like too much.

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  • f.lovely

    obviously those people are full of shit and you sound like a normal and genuine person.its ok to feel very angry and hate those people who hurt you,these are the feelings you supposed to have! but the shit people should know their limits and if their brain doesnt tell them to stop then the only other options is a legal system or violence.but violence brings more violence and than its a mess,so i advice you stand up for your rights and formally complain in writing etc to school and whoever should protect your human rights.meanwhile concentrate on nice hobbies and try to make friends elsewhere.and good luck x x

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  • Thatguy777

    Whenever someone talks smack, just say "oh ok." They won't know what to do

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  • Because they can be. I was bullied badly but I used the crap they gave me and turned it into something constructive by beginning to write songs and poetry.

    You are better than them but in the meantime, tell an adult about it even if it is scary and you don't want to cause anything. You don't deserve to be made fun of. :)

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  • DefinitelyNotNormal89

    This is so sad =( when I was at school I was a "goth", naturally I had a lot of people say things to me but because I literally didn't care what the world thought about me I would laugh it off or say something even funnier back to them, people actually just accepted how I looked and I never got bullied for it.
    As soon as they see they're getting to you they've won. Don't react to it, just brush it off and carry on and they'll actually get bored.
    Forget what ANYBODY thinks of you, as long as you're happy with yourself that is all that matters.
    It's a shame that people stoop to these levels to hurt others but it's life I'm afraid, try not to let it get to you as they're just not worth it

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  • Yeah todd, I agree

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  • ToddStellar

    If they are doing this because you gave your own opinion on particular subjects, then they are outlandishly immature.
    If you ever feel that your opinion needs to be heard, never hold your breath, despite the reactions of some.

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  • Yes, although I'm not in your position, I do agree with you. Where is that switch in their head that says " I should stop, this is mean ".

    Just keep ignoring it, they are only wanting a reaction from you, reaction gives them fuel to pick on you, if you ignore it, they'll move on to some other kid. I promise, after a while they'll get bored with bullying you. School is tough and mean and the teachers don't do anything.

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