Why i still don't have a boyfriend even in college?

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I am a college student. I am already 19 years old and soon will turn 20.As of now, i'm single and desperately searching for the right guy i.e "My Mr.Perfect".... All my school friends(even those simple ones) have boyfriends! And the only question that strikes my mind is "Why don't I have a boyfriend?" I meant, i'm not that bad... in fact, i'm a girl who is very simple, generous, good in studies and i definitely have good personality! I can't say that i'm a girl with perfect face but i do look much better than those having boyfriends. And all my friends say i have a great body figure measuring 168cm tall. Still then, no boy approached me nor asked me out. So, i really wonder to myself "Am I Really That Bad?" In school days, i didn't want to make relationships because i know that it was not the right time but now its too hard to survive in college without a boyfriend. Everywhere I go i see my friends with their boyfriends(and honestly speaking, i often envy them) What Should I do????

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  • karmasAbich
    12 years ago

    College is for preparing for the future and getting a career. Not frivolous boyfriends snatching. However, try eye-balling a guy you like, he might come over and be like "hey, you wanna go get coffee?" And you can be like "I'm not big on coffee" and he will be like, "oh i 'dig' you wanna catch a flick at the theatres?" And you can be like "I have to study*sexy face*" and he will be all "we can study at my place" and then you go, get laid, make babies, get stuck into marrying him and your life will be ruined. or you can be patient and wait until your ready for a relationship with a dude..

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  • TBONE0405
    12 years ago

    Just be patient you will find the right guy for you eventually. Don't wait around for "Mr. Perfect" because I don't think theres a such thing as a Mr. Perfect. We all have flaws and no one is perfect, so if thats what you're waiting for, you might not find that. Just look for a good guy who is nice and treats you right, is a good fit for you, etc. but don't waste your time searching for a Mr Perfect. Just be patient you're still young and you will find the right guy for you when the time is right

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  • still_no_BF
    12 years ago

    Thnx every1 4replying 2my post. I hv found the right answer and i'm no longer confused. Yup, ur right...i can't waste my time thinking about these crazy stuffs. and i'll try 2enjoy my college life n focus on my studies.

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  • smitty217
    12 years ago

    Don't force anything. You're only 19!!! And in college!!! Live it up. Just b/c your friends have bfs doesn't mean you need one. Just have fun and before you know it, you'll find that right guy. And you'll KNOW when you've found him. Don't force it. The best things come along at unexpected times.

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  • suckonthis9
    12 years ago

    You will "know" when you meet him. Don't be too hasty when it comes to relationships, but also do not cloister yourself. It is okay to go out with someone even if he is not "Mr. Perfect". All sorts of mutual inter-relationships can be agreed upon. Be honest with yourself and your partner. If it feels good, and it's mutual, DO IT!!!

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  • REvEnGE
    12 years ago

    Keep searching....
    I am 18 and in college and don't have a girlfriend. It's not a big deal. You will find ur mr.perfect.

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