Why i hate my mother
I hate my mother ,,why? I left living the country of mu birth ,uk,40 years ago,reflecting back one of the reasons for that was the over bearing parents,clingy,over powering,I made a life for my self and a good one,over the years I have become a confident person,owned my own buisness respected and well liked.To cut the long long story down,skip forward 40 years,I/we now find our selves my husband and I living back in the uk,caring for parents that look no interest in anything to do with their old age,rather carried on as if they would never reach old age and if they did well our daughter will take care of everything,and give up her life and everything she has worked for and come and take care of us,because thats what family are for.
I resent them I hate them for what they have done to my life and I am still here taking care of everything they did not do,father with alziemers mother with dementia,,, all i want to do is go home and have my/our life back and I feel trapped,my mother is needy,she sounds pity full when she talks she used to call us when we lived obver seas and talk ina sorrowfull way and make me feel guilty,over the years I encouraged talked with them at length at coming to where we live and we would take care of them,but no they were not prepared to give an inch,rather we were not given an option but to give up our life instead and care for them,I hate them both,but especially my mother for being such a weak insecure,person who could not think for her self and made it obvious that she was going to totally rely and be dependant on me to take care of all their needs in old age,when they were my age they were enjoying life to the full and having a life,my mother has taken my life away and all she is is needy