Why i dont have a lot of friends ???

I would say it's better to have a few good friends, as opposed to several fake friends. I always felt lonely during my school years but looking back now I actually did have a lot of friends, they just weren't there for me the way friends are supposed to be there for each other. I realized a little over a year ago that I had NO friends (excluding some online, and a 'best friend' in real life that didn't want to hang out with me) and tried out a new church with the sole intention of making friends. Thankfully, that worked out well and I have many great friends that it makes up for the past, with the added bonus of not viewing church as a chore anymore.
The only downside to this is I feel so burnt out from all the effort I put into one-sided friendships, that I feel like I'm not nearly as good of a friend to the people who really deserve it, now. :(

Probably just go out to events and do fun activities and find people who have things in common with you, compliment people on random things, anything! Just have fun with it! :D

Join a club. Universities usually have clubs. They should have their clubs listed on their site. Find one that interests you.

That used to happen to me, and i found that it was just the people in the location i was at. Once i moved somewhere else I met people who actually wanted to spend time with me, not just "at work" or "at school" friends
Start looking for friendship elsewhere i guess

I've found that after working with people a while and exchanging numbers, friendship soon follows. If it isn't for you, don't stress. Also try inviting others, keep up with old friends and help people out. But be careful, some people you help out tend to cling to you...

It is the same here. I usually have one friend at every stage of my life; at school, college, work and work-free periods. I don't fit in groups because i need true friends who hang on with me during times of happiness and times of grief. So, one friend seems enough for me every time i mangage to get along with someone. Unfortunately, this one friend doesn't hang on long enough for me to consider a true friend. either, they get married and disappear, or they meet new friends and get carried away with the thrill of new possibilities with them and seem less interested with me, leaving me on the stand-by mode. I don't like groups, i feel out of place and the talk doesn't attract me for long. I don't like shallow subjects. I need friends that are great thinkers, not make-up and plastic surgery addicts. I need friends that are deep in their thoughts and feelings. But, it seems that all that everyone is talking and thinking about is what that person did or what that one wore or which shoes and bag she was wearing at that place. I hate it! I need a real discussion with wise people. I think i'm going to be friends with grandmothers and old people in the end.

You can be my friend. I'll be anyone's friend as long as they're a friend to me, and don't stab me in the back and/or lie to me like most of my friends do

"You wanna be friends? :D"

is what I always say when I see a post like this.

By a lot do you meen you still have some friends just not a lot?
Do you like comic books? Card games like magic the gathering? table top role play?
Go hang out at a comic book store or a place where they sell the rp dice. Lots of guys there and easy to make friends! Im a bit nerdy so :P

But if you have any hobby you can hang out at places and find people with the same hobby.
or join a club to meet people. Colleges have lots of clubs.

Add people you know to facebook and send public invites to tag along with things you do. For example post, who would like to go to the movies with me tonight? Sometimes you get no response and sometimes you do. The more people you meet the more likely someone will want to hangout. Make sure to consider other peoples schedules when you want to make plans wiith them and dont get upset when somebody doesnt want to do anything.