Why i cant stand fat women

I went out with a larger woman once. It wasnt really her appearance that bugged me, it was her rotten attitude. My theory is that she felt so insecure about being overweight that she felt like she needed to prove to everyone that she didnt care about appearance and she kind of forced this view on the people around her. Always making snide comments about skinny people and how they are anorexic and sending an unrealistic image to the population. The truth about those people is that they were actually healthy normal weight people. I be angry. She was just insecure and jealous because she was overweight, yet she did nothing to better her situation but complain about and point her finger at people that were normal weight.

so don't date them?

i don't get the problem here. unless there's a reason you only attract fat women and you're annoyed by it... in which case, I'm sure they are none too happy about your own shortcomings also.

Not being attracted to overweight women is fine, "hating" them, as in can't stand them existing, is a whole other matter.

Nobody is asking you to think they are attractive, but lack of sexual attraction should not equal to hate.

Why u so mean.

Warm in the winter, shady in the summer time.

Everyone's a little bit shallow, whether they'll admit it or not. People are naturally attracted to those with signs of good physical health, and fat people are generally less healthy than fit people. There's nothing to feel guilty about. If fat women want you to be attracted to them, they should lose weight. This whole notion that obesity is caused by high metabolism, thyroid problems, being "big-boned", etc. is a myth. Except in a few extreme cases, obesity is almost always caused by overeating and other poor lifestyle choices.

Ironically most/all pornographic material for sexual desires is of slim women not fat obese women (although obviously these fat women fetishes and material exists, but not much of it)

Men are generally attracted to slimmer women. Natural and normal.

Some say, what about when the one you love becomes fat, or you fall in love with a larger woman. Well obviously that larger woman is LESS attractive (generally) than any slimmer woman, sexually speaking of course.

For guys that say they are sexually attracted to larger women? No idea why. In my mind they fall into the same category as bestiality, its just disgusting. But I suppose some people are warped minded.

I'll be honest in that I have issues with overweight people. I think this due to my history of anorexia and weight related phobias. I know that I am not being fair and I do keep negative comments to myself for the most part because I don't want to make them feel bad. No matter what I do I can't really seem to keep varying levels of disgust, anger and annoyance to practically non existent levels!

Try to do your very best to not affect the way you treat her. Be as kind and polite as possible and keep the feelings in check. Don't freak out as there's the risk of you being labeled by some members of society. Take deep breaths and relax. Try to occupy your mind with other things when you are in her presence.

Good Luck. :)

I think we all prefer to surround ourselves with what we feel are attractive people, unless you are a beautiful woman. They just do not want the competition.
But fat people are people too and many have really great personalities, or so it is said.
I hope as you age that your body does not sabotage you and you become what you hate!

Yoda?

When I was a little girl I couldn't stand pregnant women.

I have an issue with overweight too. Especially women for an odd reason.
I don't mind it if friends and family are overweight, I'm just silently hoping they will start working out but I'd never,ever date a fat person again.

Did it and during the whole relationship of four years I expected him to change because he constantly tried, and failed.