Why have i never had any sex drive? :(

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Recently i have been feeling incrediabely down and depressed and fed up with my life to be honest.

The girl i loved soo much, i'm not even sure if i love anymore. I end up worrying that i am gay even though there is no way i can be since i fancy girls.

But what really confuses me is this, i can fancy a girl and realy love them and feel a huge attraction towards them. But like i have no sex drive at all and can't really say i have done. I find boobs attractive like i like the way they look and stuff. But to be honest, nothing like this has ever made me like gain an erection, even if it feels like it should, it doesn't, i may feel like it is erect but it's not. But what i don't understand is, why don't i get it? Why do i not have a huge urge to have sex with someone or do anything like that. It just doesn't appear that attractive to me, and the thought of it or looking at them or anything to do with sexual stuff like porn or anything just does not switch it up, and is this normal? What is wrong with me? Can it be fixed? But like a weird fetish i have use to be able to switch me on but even that can be a struggle sometimes now. What do i do?

What is wrong with meee? Where do i get help? What do i doo?

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  • Adamtrask
    13 years ago

    There are a lot of reasons this could be happening. Could be that you have a testosterone deficiency, in which case medication could help. Or if you are suffering from depression, that would definitely explain it too. And the more worried you become, the worse it will be. Sex drive is tied to your emotions. Start by talking to your doctor (your worries are very normal). He might refer you to a psychologist. Good luck- it'll be okay!

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  • RHGERHDAF
    14 years ago

    Some humans are born without certain instincts. It is normal, can be pathological, can be not. Ask a doctor, ask asexual communities.

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