Why has the lesbian population increased over the years?

i have certainly noticed myself that there are so much more women into other women lately, and now the Lesbian Population has certainly increased very rapidly over the years. have many of you women out there been very badly abused by men at one time or another?, and i can see why many of us men looking to meet a good woman has become very difficult for us that are seriously looking to find love. women are much more Nastier to us men nowadays which will certainly very much explain it, and i know other friends of mine that have met Very Rude women as well since they will say to me, what the hell happened to many women today? it is Very Sad that many women today are like this, and it is Very Obvious why many of us men have trouble meeting women. there are many of us Very Good men out there that do know how to treat women Very Well, and would make a Good Husband.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    I don't think it has i think you are just more aware of it.

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  • (s)aint

    Lol! The reason why you have trouble meeting a "Good woman" could be that you are in fact an asshole!

    Your opinions about homosexuality certainly tells me that you are.
    I'd never concider dating someone like that.

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    • So just because he's having trouble finding a partner just because of his gender, and is complaining about it, makes him an asshole?
      Most straight men have the same problem, and opinion. So are all men assholes just because they are men and have natural needs?
      Eat shit you feminism cunt!

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      • (s)aint

        He's an ass hole because he's complaining about people's sexuality!

        I know PLENTY of men that have no issues finding a temporary fuck or a woman to date.

        As a man you DO have to get out there and you DO have to know how to attract a woman and complaining on the internet about it isn't going to get you one!

        It IS hard for a man to get a woman's attention because these days most women don't fall head over heels for just ANYONE, we have standards.
        MANY, MAAANY men that have flirted with me really do get offended when I reject them.
        So I kind of read this post as wounded male pride ...

        Op also suggest that homosexuality comes from being badly treated by the opposite gender, and the hell is that!?

        And on another note, I really do hate feminists- Most of them are silly as fuck. What I'm going on about is EQUAL FUCKING RIGHTS.

        Women have the RIGHT to turn down men without us being weird.

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    • RealityIs

      Said the retard herself.

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      • (s)aint

        Replying to a THREE YEARS OLD COMMENT!? I can´t be arsed to read this shit again.

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  • 1. Lesbianism is aggressively promoted by media. Almost every show has lesbian couples or scenes in it. You rarely see gay male couples. And if you see them, they never get intimate,while lesbians always indulge in some form of sexual activity, showing the very definition of lesbianism, as opposed to gay males, who are just described as gay without showing any kind of evidence.

    2. Stupid clueless straight men find it hot, therefor they encourage it.

    3. Girls are growing up being taught by media that only feminine beauty is sexually appealing, seeing women half naked or completely naked, female beauty being in most cases the only form of beauty promoted by media.

    4. Throughout time, media ignored female needs, concentrating only on catering to male viewers pleasure and expectations, making male beauty being ignored. In the end, causing the loss of appreciation for masculine beauty and physical values by almost everyone, regardless of gender.

    5. Feminism perpetuating the "single" lifestyle for women, describing any sort of involvement of commitment by women to a man as an impediment for their success or career aspirations.

    And for all those people who claim that society being more open to homosexuality led to this, you need to stop being hypocrites and just acknowledge the fact that there is are a lot of other aspects and factors that caused this change. Like media influence and trends. Otherwise it is YOU who are being close minded. Repeating the same thing over and over again. "born that way, born that way, born that way". I mean, how stubborn and rigid can you people be?
    It's quite evident that there's an unbalance already, meaning there are too few straight women for the population of straight men, which causes unbalance.
    Homosexuality is described as normal. But, is unbalance normal? Just fucking think about it before mumbling the same stupid senseless arguments again and again.

    End of the log.

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    • ifonlyuknew247

      ^ Boom.

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  • I remember reading a statistic stating there were more homosexual men than homosexual females, and I have definitely seen an increase of homosexual men or bisexual men than the reverse.

    It is a bit weird. If you consider the societal aspects of it and took away the negativity of male homosexuality, then I think even more men would either come out or experiment more.
    Female homosexuality/bisexuality is a popular thing, infact a lot of the time it is encouraged and considered "hot" (I personally don't find it attractive), where as male homosexuality/bisexuality is looked down upon.

    So even considering that societal pressures and how females do not have to worry as much about certain aspects men do when it comes to homosexuality which will result in it being easier for women to experiment or come out than it is for men.

    So, considering more men are homosexual than women, plus the societal aspects that hold men back from either coming out or experimenting compared to women, I would definitely say homosexual men will always have more in quantity than homosexual women.

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  • SavageScience

    When I first read the title, I thought this was gonna explain how they shouldn't let lesbians have sex because they might over-populate the planet.

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    • SHAKEStheClown

      That would be truly awesome!

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  • ♫Diamonds♫

    It's extremely foolish to think that the only reason women become lesbian is because they've been hurt by men at some point.

    As society has become more accepting, lesbians have felt more safe coming out. The number of lesbians is probably very nearly the exact same as it has been throughout human history, it's just more socially accepted these days, so you actually hear about / see them more often.

    Women being "much nastier" to men these days is just hogwash. Women are perhaps a bit more empowered and outspoken, and the backlash you're receiving that leads to you assuming they're nastier likely just comes from the fact everything you've written in this post reeks of misogyny, which tends to piss women, and forward-thinking men, off. There's probably a correlation between how you see women and how they treat you that's worth looking into.

    From the perspective of a woman, you sound like you would make a dangerous, controlling, and verbally or emotionally abusive husband. Pretty much the opposite of a "good man".

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    • Hhhhhhhh

      Thank you for writing this because frankly this post made me too mad to write a response nearly as coherent as this :3333

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  • KeddersPrincess

    ItDuz pretty much hit the nail on the head but I'll leave my two cents.

    I don't believe that more women are becoming lesbians because of a bad relationship. If I ended up in a bad relationship that wouldn't suddenly make me like women. I'd either not date at all or find a better man. Anyway, I don't think that the rate of homosexuality in women is rising I think that, in this day and age, it's becoming more acceptable for them to come out so a lot of women don't feel like they need to hide in the closet anymore as oppose to the way a lesbian my feel 50 years ago. It's a new day and age. Personally, I like that they can come out and not be ashamed of themselves. I think that people should be accepted for who they are. Men as well. Although they are not as accepted as women when coming out, but a lot more of them aren't afraid to admit they're homosexual as they would've been 50 years ago. I often ask myself if they Katy Perry song "I Kissed A Gril and I Liked It" would've been sung by a guy "I Kissed A Dude and I Liked It" what would the reaction be? Hmm.

    But it all has to do with era and having more acceptance. Hopefully, one day no one will be ashamed of who they are, and can express their sexuality freely, man or woman.

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  • Hhhhhhhh

    Women are ruder because we realise we don't owe you our attention.
    I personally identify as a lesbian and let me be clear, NOT ALL LESBIANS ARE LIKE THIS. But I'm a lesbian because despite my physical attraction to men, their actions disgust me. That is, men who act like I owe them a smile and a wink and an easy let-down. Men who think they're entitled to a wife with a bangin' rack. Men who are manipulative and abusive. Men who try to sweet talk their way into my bed but turn into an infant when they hear the word "no". Men who think all women "need" a husband. Men who think women "need" validation via romantic escapades with YOU.

    Do not be mistaken. I don't hate men. I have male friends who are good people and LEGITIMATELY respectful, whom I would date in a heartbeat.

    But what I do hate is men like you. I hope you die alone, you misogynist piece of shit.

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  • RealityIs

    Then again many of these women unfortunately have been very extremely abused by men already and are now going the other way which would explain it as well. Or many of them really did have a very horrible life when they were growing up too or a combination of both which is very sad for them if that was the case.

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  • BestGoodAnswerOfAll

    Well these women are such Losers in the first place since many of them are very Rude that i have noticed myself, and it is very hard for us good straight men to start a Normal Conversation with a woman that attracts us since they will tell us to go away which many of these women today are Not worth our time to begin with. Since so many women in College now, many of them have experimented with another woman at one time or another with the help of these stupid reality shows that they have on TV these days as well as the Media. With shows like Ellen and Opera which adds to the problem since many of these type of women think that being with another woman is really cool. Wrong.

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  • SHAKEStheClown

    Hey there dude, forget about finding a woman and just get yourself a sheep or a goat!

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  • anniemonkat

    Maybe you feel like there is a much higher population of homosexual women now because society is generally much more accepting of opposite sex attraction than in previous years. Perhaps people aren't masking their attractions as much.

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  • Isabella80s

    'women are much more Nastier to us men nowadays' - generalising much?!

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  • davesumba

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  • it is definitely very sad that many women are like this today, and it is very obvious why many men like us have trouble meeting a good woman nowadays which i will very much agree. i have a friend that had is wife leave him for another woman which he was a very caring and loving husband that was very much committed to her as well, and it is more sad that they have children too. women into other women is the new trend, and they are so very sad and pathetic. it is very sad for us good men that have to suffer for the other rotten men out there that have been very abusive to women, and this is a very good reason why many women do turn to other women today for love and affection. but it does really suck for us straight men that are looking now, Doesn't It?

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    • RomeoDeMontague

      It did seem to increase. Perhaps its the fact gay is in now.

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    • dom180

      Would you turn gay if a woman treated you badly?

      Then why do you imagine women turning gay if men treat them badly?

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      • RomeoDeMontague

        Some people do claim that is why they went to the other gender. However I doubt this reasoning would be applied to every single gay person there is. Many people say "Well I am gay since my ex raped me" or something like that. Which would make sense it screwed up your head so bad you cant imagine touching that gender anymore. Both a male and a female can give some what of the same thing in a relationship. The one difference would probobly be the downstairs anatomy. Not that everyone is going to want to go for both genders but each gender could supply a lot of the same emotional comfort that is desired from it.

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      • Sog

        Because it's more socially acceptable for a woman to say that she's not really gay and "just experimenting" or "just going through a phase" than it is for a man.

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        • dom180

          That relies on homosexuality being a choice, though. You're confusing orientation (not a free choice) and behaviour (a free choice).

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          • thegypsysailor

            Come on, please. Are you honestly trying to say all women who have sex with women are "born" that way? That they have no choice?
            A lot of young women do indeed turn to female lovers after a (some) very unpleasant experience (s) with men, but those women usually end up in straight relationships; children, white picket fence and minivans, in time.
            Many young woman also experiment with homosexuality in high school or college, but end up being with men.
            As it is much more acceptable for women to experiment with gay sex, it is done much more openly, so it may seem to be more prevalent.

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            • dom180

              Your orientation doesn't have to be gay for you to have sex with members of the same sex. You too are confusing behaviour with orientation; just having lesbian sex doesn't make you a lesbian, being a woman who is attracted exclusively to women makes you a lesbian. There's a difference between behaviour and attraction.

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    • SHAKEStheClown

      There are two sides to every asshole! Obviously your friend's wife didn't think he was very loving and caring or she wouldn't have left him.

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