Why don't girls like me am i normal?

Let me start off by saying, I'm inot a "nice guy" . I don't just do things because girls tell me to, I'm not a push over, and I don't follow girls around like a dog. I'm not ugly, considering Ive been called cute/handsome plenty of times. I am a gentleman, and respect women entirely. I'm not short fat or smell bad. I'm not overly aggressive and I'm not mean. I'm quiet in school but can occasionally be loud around with friends. I'm not a druggie a bully or a geek. I like a lot of things, I'm good at a lot of things. Math science, sports, cards, music, art. I like a lot of things and have a lot to talk about. I'm not a creep, I have plenty of friends and a lot say I'm funny or I'm awesome.

But why don't girls feel this way about me? They've laughed at my jokes smiled at me but never have I had a girl as a friend. I'm concerned that there is something wrong with me.

Is there something wrong with me? Why does everyone have a bunch of girl friends and I can't even get one. Anyone else in my situation?

Is it normal to not have a single female friend or not even be alone with a girl ever?

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57% Normal
Based on 30 votes (17 yes)
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  • Sunshine:)

    Sounds a lot like me, but I'm a girl. You seem to be pretty nice...Maybe you have a big nose? Oh nah. Scratch that. You probably just haven't found your perfect match yet. One day a girl will come along and yadayadayada, you know the rest of the story <3

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  • Evenios

    its normal because today girls girls are shallow sluts you may be "cute" but not "cute enough" they may just be passing you by for some other "hott guy". i woudnt worry about it too much. just give it time. you may find a girl who cares. but just dont over do it.

    just be yourself that is all you can be. put yourself out there and be yourself and if they dont like you screw them. but keep trying!

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    • TheInsignificantGirl

      Girls are not shallow sluts. Some girls are shallow sluts, not "girls" in general. Don't be sexist please.

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  • DiamondGirl

    Nah. Bullshit there's something your leaving out. If u were really that wonderful u would have a girl. Now tell me your secret. And I'll help u. I'm a grown woman.

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  • dom180

    All you really have to do to have female friends is the same things you have to do to have male friends. Just be funny, not mean and a fun or interesting person to be around. Being attractive, gentlemanly and respectful doesn't really come into it for most girls I know - unless you're extremely crude and unrespectful, but that goes for guy friends as well.

    All you have to do is spend time with them and talk to them. If you're happy to joke with them you clearly don't have crippling confidence problems. There's no magic ritual, and no way of getting friends male or female without investing time. It's literally a one step process, and the one step is: hang out with them, talk and get to know them.

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  • indiangirl

    if you are this much awesome I don't understand why you don't get a girl as your friend.... o_O
    stop acting creepy to girls..

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  • BrownNightmare

    Johnny my boy, you are being "zoned"

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  • BrownNightmare

    Well don't expect every girl that you meet wants to fuck you because they don't.

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  • Aliceee93

    Just buy them diamonds ;)

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  • udolipixie

    Likely you're normal and more likely it's not that gals don't like you but that the gals you want don't like you.

    Also it's quite likely you're creepy to gals if you haven't ever had a single female friend or been alone with a gal. Just because your friends don't think you're a creep doesn't mean that others don't and considering it'. It's suited to focus more on the opinions of gals then your friends who are likely to overlook your flaws or have the same ones and defend them as normal/funny/awesome.

    In my opinion you meet the baseline requirements for a decent person. It's always amusing to me that it seems guy think that being at least average is something oh so special. There are plenty of guys that aren't short, don't smell bad, and are nice to gals they want sex from. It seems you offer little to nothing else different from the vast majority of guys which to me easily explains which gals you want don't like you.

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  • awesomeadvice88

    My story time, I never had a girlfriend until I was 15 years old, I'm still with the same girl now btw I'm 18, my girl has been with different boys before, most of them assholes but now she seems happy with me and I'm happy with her! Just waiting for the right group of people is key, if you don't mix well with the girls you know find some other girls, there are plenty in the world :) not everybody will like you and that took me a while to learn but when I did, anyone who doesn't like me I couldn't care less, as long as I have the people closest to me I don't care!:) I have been in the same situation as you and so will other people, I don't consider myself good looking in any way and I'm not afraid to admit that because I don't care whether anyone thinks I am or not :) however people have mentioned otherwise I too have had compliments however I've never taken notice because I have all I need :) when the right people or person comes along you'll know and this feeling will soon be forgotten! Just have to wait and see unfortunately man!

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  • LucidGate

    You're the perfect guy (friend). :)

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  • Cynthia3754

    I am so sorry to hear you are having these problems, but let me tell you a story. Once when I was quite young, I was quite beautiful... beautiful enough that a young George Clooney once sat with me having a drink. As a friend said to me ... "You always get the best looking guys.. always." Yes, I did, except when I really was interested in getting them. When my heart was yearning for another and none of these men meant a thing to me. I had plenty of men, but when I was in a position as you are right now, it seemed I couldn't get a man to look at me. Confidence is the most attractive trait a person can have. A person who is obnoxious and is loud without grace will not be attractive, but the nice young man who is confident of all the things they believe for themselves, well that is a different story. I have seen men that were not handsome at all until after you got to know them. And their politeness and warmth made it evident why every one was attracted to them. I don't see faces, color, or race. I see the heart. If the heart is good it will show in the eyes. Don't go for the girl that always likes the bad boy. Wait and find the special girl that will appreciate all that you are. I have male friends that were virgins into their 30's and they have successful marriages and lovely children. Have patience. Really, don't look at yourself as if you are doing something wrong. Relax and just enjoy life. The right one will come along... they really will.

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    • DiamondGirl

      Get outta here! You did not, have a drink with George Clooney! Maybe u were so ripped u thought your funky lookin dude was George Clooney. Please Sister. Fairy tales r 4 kids!

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      • awesomeadvice88

        And speaking like this 'r u coming out l8r' etc... is for plonkers please speak properly! She meant a younger look alike of george clooney not george clooney himself!

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        • DiamondGirl

          WTF nigga, eat my ass!

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          • awesomeadvice88

            You'd like that? Nah. Who'd want to eat your shitty ass? That is disgusting! I find the n word offensive so please refrain from using it, thankyou! Oh and if you're a 'grown woman' why do u spk like dis? And why in the hell are you calling people by that disgraceful word? I respect my elders but I expect the same level of respect back!

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  • Visitor

    How old are you dear? Hanging out with people of the opposite sex can be awkward until both parties reach maturity. It is normally the less attractive (physically) or just very confident who attract many girls as friends.

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  • thegypsysailor

    In this world one can be oh, so nice or oh, so clever. It's so much easier to be nice!

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  • Shnaz

    You need to grow some balls and just grab one of them and fuck her. You'll gain tons of respect.

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    • awesomeadvice88

      He only respect he'll gain is from assholes, btw you just defined rape, you left out the fact that the girl would be willing to do it, she has to be or that is rape! Basically he's telling you to become a rapist or a man slag, but if he has respect and friends that think he's and I quote 'funny and awesome' he shouldn't need to gain respect by doing that, plus what girl respects a guy that fucks and ducks, a guy that gets off and sets off, well you get the point! Bad advice here!

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      • Shnaz

        If someone has so many rocks in their head that they can't see this is sarcasm........ Christ the world has gone to shit.

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        • awesomeadvice88

          I know what sarcasm is, this just wasn't it! You were being deadly serious!

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          • Shnaz

            It is a waste of time to go back and forth with you as you have not a clue. This time I AM deadly serious.

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            • awesomeadvice88

              This time you are? You have been all the time though? It is a waste of time isn't it so why even reply with that? I have more than a clue, I am the text book of sarcasm! You need to word it better if it was sarcasm and YOU AREN'T being deadly serious!

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    dont just be their friends, tell em you want their bodies too. be more aggressive about it.

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