Why doesn’t he want me?
I’ve posted a couple of post about this boy so sorry in advance.
He works a lot, sleeps when he’s done working, says his past relationships failed because they didn’t understand why he worked so much.
He’s always been awful at messaging. We’ve been on 3 amazing dates and spoke everyday, but sometimes he doesn’t reply til late. A couple of times I’ve stopped messaging just to see if he starts it off again and he has. I tried asking if he was free last weekend he said he was working but we could chill and go for a walk... I ended up working so nothing happened.
This week has been bugging me though. Why doesn’t he message more? Why is it always late when he messages? Why isn’t he asking me out? My worst fears is he isn’t interested after being hurt before it all came back.
So I asked after we had a nice convo ‘are you wanting to meet up again sometime?’
His reply ‘yes I do, but I don’t feel like I have the time, im working this weekend and when I get home from work all I want to do is sleep (yes he does have a manual instence job) once I get my house sorted I should be able to cut my hours down and have more time then x’
First instinct was he’s making excuses but why say yes I do? Form past experiences my mind doesn’t know what to think. I said something back saying I can’t tell if you’re interested or not etc.
He said ‘I am interested, If I wasn’t I wouldn’t have taken you to Manchester (over an hour from us) you aren’t like other girls that go out all the time you’ve got your head screwed on, but I think I’ve picked the wrong time for dating’ took us ages to get a date as I started back on the app when I got my heart broke so never thought anything of him, he asked me out twice and then we went some time without speaking then we missed again before we finally met up.
I do like him a lot. But I suppose if he was keen he wouldn’t be saying all this.