Why does this happen

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hi,

just wanted to ask if this is normal or what is the reason for the following to happen.

of late my Gf has lost interest in having sex soon after ive gone down on her and she has cum.

its happened twice now that while making out and me going down on her she came and than said to stop right after that. it was like a switch that turned her off. is there any medical reason behind this. or could this be a phase she is going through.

i would not want to have sex with my partner if she was not interested as its no fun.

answers from women would be grateful for this,

thank you

adp384

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  • saduJ18
    8 years ago

    Maybe you are good at eating pussy but you can't fuck worth a damn...?

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    • gloryholeflasher
      8 years ago

      Funny you should say that. My wife cums whether I use my dick or my mouth, but if I use my dick ONLY then I'm finished before she's warmed up. I use my mouth to get her ready for fucking. She often cums while I'm eating her, and again while I'm fucking her. Truthfully, I enjoy eating her more than fucking her.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    It's quite normal for some women to feel such sensitivity in their genitals after an orgasm that they can't bear to be touched until they've come down a bit. If this response is new, maybe she's having more intense orgasms for some reason?

    In my experience, sometimes very intense orgasms can leave me feeling very sensitive clitorally for a little while.

    Talk to her about it!

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    Talk to her about it. Maybe it's a little awkward but tell her you'd like to get off too.

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  • Lariii
    8 years ago

    Well, when I come, I tend to lose all sexual desire, it's like a switch has just flipped off. So I'd say that after she comes, she's probably not in the mood any more, so maybe finish first but always make sure you finish her afterwards.

    Also, guys do the same don't they? They come, roll over and sleep.

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    • Shackleford96
      8 years ago

      Ah, gotta love those sweeping generalizations...

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  • Shackleford96
    8 years ago

    I'd say to wait 10-20 minutes and see if you can get her to go at it again. If not, maybe you shouldn't finish her completely before you move on to yourself.

    It should be equal.

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  • VirgilManly
    8 years ago

    Try getting off before her. Then tell her you've lost interest.
    Problem solved.

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    • Shackleford96
      8 years ago

      That's funny. Probably not going to make things better though.

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      • VirgilManly
        8 years ago

        Can they get any worse?

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        • Shackleford96
          8 years ago

          Fair point. Lol

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  • Pseodonihm
    8 years ago

    A...little...more....information...
    Ok, I'm just guessing here, and shoot me if I'm wrong, your a lesbian. And my best guess is that she is having some problems with her sexual nature. If this is the case she needs to come(no pun intended) clean and talk to you about it.

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    • adp384
      8 years ago

      Would not shoot u down for thinking I'm a lesbian but m not m guy lol

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      • Pseodonihm
        8 years ago

        Your post was very ambiguous.

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        • Darkoil
          8 years ago

          It was obviously posted by a guy.

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        • Shackleford96
          8 years ago

          Not really. I got the impression of a guy when I read it.

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