Why does my boyfriend watch so mych porn? am i not good enough?

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my boyfriend and i have been together three years. we both have high sex drives. but he still watches tonns of porn! its starting to really piss me off and its only been in the last six months hes been watching it. i give him everything he wants i do whatever he wants anal, blowjobs the lot. im a size 8 i have 36 D tits. am i not good enough or something!!!! i feel worthless like i dont give him what he wants like i dont fullfil him anymore like im not skinny enough of pretty enough :( feels so shit.

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  • Naamah
    11 years ago

    This is quite a difficult problem. I understand that you are annoyed by the situation. There are many reasons why men do that. I am not sute which one it is in his case but I don´t think your physical appearance has something to do with it. You wrote that both of you have high sex drives. What exactly do you mean by that? Has he ever refused to have sex with you when you wanted and explicitly initiated it?

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  • prasatko
    11 years ago

    I agree with dappled (the poster above). And above all I´d like to point out that it probably has absolutely nothing to do with your physical appearance.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    11 years ago

    Porn is for guys who don't have a good imagination.

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    It's no reflection on you whatsoever. I can understand why you think it might be but men never, as far as I know, think of porn and real sex in the same way. It's a very casual thing which means nothing, whereas sex with our partners is not a casual thing at all and it does mean everything.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    Why don't you just ask him?

    Honestly, it's male nature to watch porn. Men are curious and visually stimulated creatures and porn is an easy outlet for them to express that stimulation. I'm sure that you are satisfying him plenty but often men are still driven to look at new things.

    Try watching the porn with him. It can be a very sexually gratifying experience for the both of you.

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
      11 years ago

      THIS!

      The better question is "why do so many women think that watching porn means ANYTHING about them?"

      but why bother when we know the answer?
      .... Female insecurity is a personal problem. The porn isn't at fault... it's just easier to put the focus and blame on the porn (or the man for watching it!), vs admitting to themselves that they are insecure.

      the problem of course is getting women to understand that their insecurity is to blame and that they need to stop blaming their men for this insecurity.

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