Why does my boyfriend wants kids so bad? and became scary !!

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Me and my bf have been for 4 months and he always talk to me about having kids he is 30 and i am 20 and planning to get married if our relationship gots all good, he always said that he loves me and wants to spend his whole life with me, we have never had sex because we both believe that should be after marriage aalso i am a virgin and he knows that. but recently he keeps talking about wanting me to get pregnant i said i am not ready to have kids yet he said i will gets you pregnant whatever takes me even if i do that even before marriage. i told him why the violence he said no violence but i will gets you pregnant because you didn't want it your own

pleaase help what does he mean by saying it ??

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago | pl

    Tell him you aren't ready for all of that and that his remarks aren't funny or cool. If he persists with this bullshit, dump him. He's too old for you anyway. My God, you're not of legal drinking age and this idiot is talking about getting you pregnant! Ugh! Forget about him! You've only wasted four months with this jerk, no sense in wasting a lifetime!

    Are you even in college? You deserve a chance at an education whether it's college or trade school or whatever. Don't let some piece of dog poo who's desperate to spread his seed leave you barefoot and pregnant! If some older dude told me that bullshit when I was your age I would run far far away from his selfish ass! Do yourself a favor and find a nice guy your own age who shares your morals and values; find someone who like yourself is also a virgin, and is not in a rush to fuck up his life the way this older man is trying to fuck up your life.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    What he means is that he wants to control you and make you pregnant when you've made it clear you don't want kids.

    Run run RUN as fast as you can!

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  • Steve2
    8 years ago

    ABSOLUTELY DO NOT HAVE KIDS!!! Not when you're 20, 30, 40 or 50!!! We do not need you spreading more grammatically fucked-up offspring into our already hopeless world!

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    • bucho's_butt
      8 years ago

      Amen to that.

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  • Azaman
    8 years ago

    You had sex but you are a virgin....

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      i wanted to write we have never had sex just mistake

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