Why does my boyfriend wants kids so bad? and became scary !!

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me and my bf have been for 4 months and he always talk to me about having kids he is 30 and i am 20 and planning to get married if our relationship gots all good, he always said that he loves me and wants to spend his whole life with me, we had sex because we both believe that should be after marriage aalso i am a virgin and he knows that. but recently he keeps talking about wanting me to get pregnant i said i am not ready to have kids yet he said i will gets you pregnant whatever takes me even if i do that even before marriage. i told him why the violence he said no violence but i will gets you pregnant because you didn't want it your own

pleaase help what does he mean by saying it ??

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  • Riiley
    8 years ago

    Ditch him before he does start becoming violent. He sounds like a disgusting piece of shit. He doesn't respect your wishes, end the relationship

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  • CarterContagious
    8 years ago

    This Is An Extremely UNHEALTHY Relationship! Leave Him Before He Gets Violent! Guys Like That Usually Get Abusive And At Times Might Even Try To Take Your Life ! Don't Risk Him Beating ,Raping Or Killing You ! LEAVE NOW!

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Umm ... he's your boyfriend but you're not with him? "With him" doesn't necessarily mean living with ....

    The last two sentences of your post indicate to me that he's a control freak

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Why are you with this control freak?

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    • fudgebarr
      8 years ago

      I am not with him. we are just too different for anything long to work. I am not a kid person. we are both happily with other people and on good terms.

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  • fudgebarr
    8 years ago

    dated a guy who very sweet and a gentlemen. Unfortunately, He was into that quiverful thing.He proposed after two months of dating.I had to say no because he wanted me to elope and I just couldn't get into his extreme brand of religion. He also wanted me to quit my job to be a housewife and live on his salary which was nothing. Six months later he eloped with someone else and they have a bunch of kids. they seem very happy.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Dump his troll ass!

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