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why does my boyfriend or any boyfriends look at other girls bums, butts and so forth when they are with their girlfriend? I am overweight and he looks at thin girls bodies. I always catch him doing it and we fight about it. what can i do about it?
Boys always do this' gf or not. It is ok while he only looks and doesnt touch or anything down that path. It is sometimes done by them without wanting, they are men. Try to loose weight though, just 2 reasure that he only looks
It's normal to look, and it's normal for it to hurt your feelings. It's rude.
Its normal for a guy to look at girls asses. I mean I do it all the time when I see a hot chick and just imagine how i would bang that.I mean guys like to see other girls asses to imagine how they would bang all that meat and this and that.But yeah try to get like them other girls and he might pay more attention to your body and that way he wont stare at other girls as much
Yeah lose weight, you can do it but no matter what you do don't fall for when he tells you you are beautiful the way you are yadiyadiyada..its so annoying! If YOU dont feel good about yourself, YOU do something about it. Forget him.
Guys look but... I think it's disrespectful to do it in front of the gf. I look at guys but wouldn't in front of my bf.
It's biology and have been like that since the beginning of life on earth.
Males and females are attracted to characteristics of the opposite sex, because they are the ones who have the good genes that they can pass on to their children - thus feeding to the "survival of the fittest"-theory.
Your bf, like any other animal, is looking (or examining) the characteristics of the other species IF he is not already fully satisfied with his current partner's genes, looks or any other level of objective measurement.
Lose some weight, prove to him that you are a good mate.
Before I got married when my guy used to actually stare at another girl, especially ones that used to wear tube tops, I actually once yelled at the girl " Hey, he wants you". My husband then boyfriend was mortified. I felt bad for the girl but I felt I needed to say something like that because all the little talks I used to have with him about it didn't work. I don't mind a glance or a quick short turn of the head but he used to turn, stop and stare and make comments. He hasn't done that since.
I think pretty much all guys look at other girls' butts... just a natural thing for them. Even if you're a super model, they will still look at others.
He's a man, he's going to look, most likely no matter what. Although maybe excercising and making yourself feel good about yourself.
But men will always look at other girls, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you.
Use those girls as motavation. Start eating healthy, and exersizing. When you are tird and don't want to do it anymore, think about how much more your boyfriend will love you.
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try to lose weight its something like the rule of the nature.the guys look to beautiful girls.i dont mean u r not beautiful.but skinny girls are always hotter than others for buys..