Why does by boyfriend cheat on me...

He cheats because he knows he doesn't need to respect you to stay. Get rid of him now. It won't be healthy for the kids to grow up with two parents that do not respect each other. Staying together for kids is the worst thing to do.

Omg gross. I would hate my life if I were you

if you're brave enough to post this comment you will be brave enough to leave..

He cheated because you didn't get mad enough & now he thinks he can get away with it & be fine every time.

Leave that cheating asshole...

well i hope you ditched the loser by now.he is still young in his mind and dont care about growing up i know a few of them around here.your best bet is to be apart from him and he can pay you child support

wow you should get married before having kids.

I know this sounds harsh but the others have said pretty much the same thing and it has to be said: He cheats because you let him. You need to take a stand and demand respect. Unfortunately he doesn't sound like a gem. He seems like a piece of trash, so I doubt he'll see how horrible he's been. You've been by his side and given him two children, he should be ashamed. Since he is not, you need to respect yourself and your children and leave. Imagine letting your kids see that their father can treat you anyway he wants, make you hurt and cry and you do nothing. Do you have a daughter? Because if you do, she could easily grow up thinking it's okay to be treated badly by men. That she should put up with disrespect the way you do. Obviously that's not good for them or you. Do what you have to but leave him behind!

He cheats because he wants to. Just get out now, and find someone else.

Leave him he's being a total douchbag and he is basically picked up a diamond and looks for rocks to find another diamond but they are very rare! Please do what your heart says but leave him he will be a horrible father to your kids and don't let him walk all over you because you deserve way better than that! :D Hopefully it all works out for you and you have a happy life with someone who really cares about you and won't throw you to waste and start looking for rocks again!

Hes not good enough for you... Find someone who "loves" you and only you!

People date way too early nowadays. This is what happens :)

My first question would be, can he get it at home? Are you involved in it or is it a wifely duty? These are questions you should ask for your next relationship. Sex should never be overlooked lightly if you want a good marriage. At this point now, he doesn't respect you or love you, he just knows you will keep on accepting it, so why not?

Probably because he likes having a comfort zone, you, that he can always come back to. However, he craves adventure sometimes which makes him stray. Also, if you are way more into him than he is into you, there is no thrill of jealousy or chase. My exbest friend had this problem for five years. He would only get interested in her when she would become more independent or fuck somebody else. Her solution? Went to Europe and fell in love with a guy who wasn't like that. You need to cut yourself off from him until you move on. He now has a new grilfriend that he cheats on too.

my best friend is an idiot she keeps going back to her baby's dad even tho he keeps doing drugs and having sex with other girls and she is pregnant again by him again. i told her she is the dumbest person i know right now for breaking up with him and going back to him 5x!!
my x husband......i found out he was cheating on me 2 months ago and i dropped him like a bomb i have nothing to do with him anymore. we broke up once before and i tried to work things out for the sake of my daughter. but he never respected me, or her, abused the both of us then cheated on me.
don't let him walk all over you. its bad for u and the kids

ouch. He looks like he doesn't know what he want. Bet he's the type of realy immature guy who doesn't realise theres other people around. Anyways... Never stay in a relationship with somebody who doesn't know what he wants. + if he cheats on you he might just not realy care about you. He just want you to be his property. Doesn't want any other guy to play with his toys.

I've been there too damn many times to count. It won't end. It's always the same. He does it because he thinks he can...b/c you let him by taking him back everytime. I understand he is the father of your children and you love him but staying any longer will only make things worse. You can do better.

i cheated on my gf once,i felt like crap afterwards. then she talked to me about and i felt a lot better. try talking to him :)

He's a douchebag. Tell him to kick rocks.

You deserve better! It's not too late, get out now and find someone better!

He uses you like toilet paper. Leave him.

The mans a dirtbag... I use the word "man" loosely. This guy is a rat. Find someone you deserve.

Walk away! Fast! Find someone who cares enough to only want to be with you.

no offense.....but he cheats on you because you had kids....most men are assholes and think girls lose their beauty after poppin kids out....which isnt true if they are in love.....he isnt and he is an asshole

or

he is just a sexual demon and cant get enough....either way....RUN

not normal, hes cheating on you becuz u let him, leave him get child support and move on with your life, or ditch the kids with him and move to somewhere awesome.

he cheats because he has no respect for you, thinks he can get away with it, and has clearly not grown up and matured yet, you deserve better. and im sorry to hear that.

Obviously this takes an emotional toll on you, but no one has mentioned the sexually transmitted diseases he may bring home.... Gotta protect your heart, mind, children, and body from this guy. He sounds like a loser. Put you and your children FIRST.

@Golden is completely right.

just read her comment to find out what you should do.

Why do you bother??

He cheated once because he's a douche, after he sees it as ok cause you stay. It will never end so do you and you kids a favor and drop his ass. No one deserves to be cheated on

Maybe because you're FAT,UGLY,or have NO MONEY.

he cheats cause what guy wants to do a women with kids BA DUM PISH