Why do women have babies?
Why on earth do women decide to have babies? I was told that as I grew older, I would regret my choice not to have children. But the truth is, as I have got older, past childbearing years, and far from any sort of regret, I am totally relieved I never did! Nor do I "make up for it" by having any friends or relatives with children. I simply have never had children in my life in any way and am glad not to. Not popular, I know.
But I am still interested to know why a woman would want to burden herself with children when she also has to work and having babies causes weight and health issues (my Mum couldn't shift 22 stone because she had children and this caused her major health issues) plus it tied her to the kitchen sink. Ultimately, she was unable to fulfill any personal potential and was made ill and depressed stuck like this to boot! It ruined her life (though she pretended at times it hadn't because she wanted me to have children). I got ill just through the ravages of corrupt medication. God knows what would have happened had I tried to have a family!
I admire women who do juggle such things. But still, I do not understand why women have babies that then grow into noisy children. I can't even stand the noise around babies and children, the mess, the chaos, physically, by body literally just can't... And that's without the rest of it- never getting a minute's peace, stuck in the kitchen, not able to fulfill personal potential etc. Neither could I bear the thought of adding to the strain the earth already is under with overpopulation: my contribution was to not have children to help the earth.
I think women are brainwashed into thinking they "must do it lest they regret any decision." And the social pressures make women think that's their primary role (in an already badly overpopulated world!). Why do it ladies?