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I hear of the odd couple been together say 7 years since early teens, I cant even find a fucking date!! I tried everything:(
Some people are just lucky I guess. I don't think this is something about which you should waste time obsessing. We are not all the same, and we all live different lives. Don't waste time being booty hurt, or jealous. What you need to do is to detach yourself from the notion that you need a partner to be happy. There are plenty of people who have a partner, and are miserable. It's better to be alone with the wrong person!
Different for everyone. I went to school with a girl who met her current boyfriend when they were both 14. We are all in our 20s now and they're still together. That is pretty unusual though so i'd say they're lucky.
It's also less likely to find someone the more desperate you are. Desperation can be sensed.
For fuck sake.
When I was in my twenties, you had to work damn hard to meet someone, especially if you weren't into the meat-market scene of bars, clubs and discos. Most often, it was pure bloody chance that resulted in you meeting someone half-way compatible.
These days, there's no shortage of ways to find someone, most of which do require the investment of some time, but minimise the risk of total humiliation or projectile vomiting when you eventually meet IRL.
If you can't find someone willing to put up with your company for a few hours, then either you're a psychopathic toad, someone with such serious self-esteem issues that you can't sell yourself even a little, or you just haven't been approaching the search in the right way.
Yes, "projectile vomiting" is not unusual because the singles scene is brutal. Trust and self-assurance that lead to happiness are easily destroyed. Social artistry may seem to be a bit of a facetious attitude, but it actually is the vitamin for life.
Actually, it was WAY EASIER to met someone 50 years ago because more people got married according to National data. The reason why relationships are so hard today is because religious belief has declined so significantly that women (not all, but many) think being “single and free” is the best way to live life.
You have no idea what you’re talking about. Did you ever go to church when younger?
Oh, yeah, I went to church, but by the time I was 18 or so, I'd grown up and realised it was all based on utter twaddle. I also recognised that everyone sitting on the pews was either thick as sun-dried pig shit, delusional and seeking the approval of an imaginary Big Daddy up in the sky, there out of habit, a total hypocrite and seeking to profit from church attendance in some non-spiritual way, or some combination of those things.
I do agree that church is a great way to meet members of the opposite sex. My parents dragged me into the Seventh Day Adventist church, and the stuff that went on between teenagers at their camp-meetings and on church outings was pretty amazing for a young teen.
Yanno, church is the fly paper of society. Mindlessly happy people would rather listen to happy talk, than have their wits shocked back to reality by a mastermind like Alfred Hitchcock. I really do miss that guy. He had a pleasantly hypnotic way of helping irrational people.
Tinder for a yeah and not laid? One of three possibilities:
1. You live near like, nobody
2. Your bottom 10% attractiveness
3. You suck at making a good profile and chatting with women on the app.
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I don't have a pot of time, tinder date meet up in 30 mins.
Mate ima 7 out a 10, and chicks dont talk back! I dotm want a fucking hook up, I wanted a relationship with a women 👭
A one night stand is still a date buster. And not everyone on tinder wants a hookup, in fact it's a small minority of the women. How many matches did you get in your year of tinder? Since your a self identified 7/10 you should have some girls practically fall in your lap if you have a halfway decent profile. Some women are desperate asf.