Why do people send unwanted nude pics?

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Seriously, sometimes when I make friends with someone on a website that has picture messaging, they get the wrong idea and send me a dick pick , or a pic of their ass, pussy, or tits. I make it clear that I'm in a relationship and not interested in finding someone, but they do that crap anyway. It just makes me think they're terrible listeners who actually don't respect me. Then they act like they did nothing wrong when I tell them not to send me that stuff. Why do people insist on sending me these things?!

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leggs91200

5 years ago

tits and pussy?
Rest assured it is not a woman on the other end sending those.
Maybe i am naive but I have a real hard time imagining a woman putting her "junk" out there like that. Probably stolen photos and the "woman" on the other end is some "lesbian trapped in a man's body". I ain't even talking about transgenders here, just straight normal men who are weird.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  Oh they're women. I've video chatted with most of them at some point. It was just talking though, so I don't get how they thought I wanted more.
  
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  - leggs91200
    
    5 years ago
    
    There might be a chance they are prostitutes or wanting you to go to their personal website.
    
    I have known women who would send nude pics but they were not women that anyone would want to see naked.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      5 years ago
      
      They could've been prostitutes, I don't know. I know some of them were what you described: women no one would want to see nude. Then there were some that had no idea if they were straight, lesbian, or bi and I guess they took a fancy to me(bisexual female.) I kind of felt bad for some of them because that's not really the way to attract someone and they seemed to not understand that.
      
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      - leggs91200
        
        5 years ago
        
        The females who are confused about their sexuality are mostly trying to get attention. They might actually sleep with men and women but it is just cause they think it is cute to change their sexuality on a weekly basis.
        
        Of course they eventually decide they are straight and want to marry some beta male with lots of cash so they can sit at home and be "depressed" and unable to work.
        
        THAT aside - young people, especially females, (and sometimes older ones) are in competition for attention. People will do or say about anything to get it. I imagine some of them do resort to sending nudes just trying to move to the front of the line for attention.
        
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charli.m

5 years ago

I had someone I thought of as a friend send me a totally out of the blue dick pic. I still haven't a clue what he was thinking.

I find that more offensive than random strangers on chat shit.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  Same. I don't know what's going on in their heads. Do they actually think I'd be happy seeing these? They knew I was with someone. Even when I was single they knew I wasn't interested in that shit. I might just hold off on the internet friends. My social skills suck but even I know not to do that.
  
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  - charli.m
    
    5 years ago
    
    Maybe just find better internet friends?
    
    I have a fair few internet friends, male and female.
    
    One out of...maybe 10 or so men?
    Idk I cba to make a list...decided I needed to see his dick. None of the women have ever sent me anything.
    
    There are decent people. And I even met most of them on this site, a foetid cesspool of the internet.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      5 years ago
      
      Yeah, I should find better internet friends. It's kind of hard to figure someone's true intentions out when we're behind a screen. I'm probably going to hold out on meeting new internet friends for a while.
      
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      - charli.m
        
        5 years ago
        
        True :/
        
        I'm sorry you've had such a souring experience. People are jerks.
        
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RoseIsabella

5 years ago

The people who insist on sending unsolicited, nude pictures of themselves are basically not normal, nor are they in their right minds. I see the person as being disrespectful of me, and my personal boundaries. I also think people who just randomly send unsolicited, nude pictures could very well be sex addicts with a thing for exhibitionism. It's definitely a deal breaker for me when a person does this regardless of whether, or not that person is male, or female.

I can't friends with, or friendly towards people who don't respect me. I refuse to do that to myself!

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  It kind of just tells me that this person has nothing to show for their life. My social skills suck, but they're not nearly as bad as these guys. Why send a pic if you know they're not interested? Am I supposed to go "OMG! That dick or titties look so good I wanna abandon my boyfriend and suck those!" Dang idiots.
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    5 years ago
    
    Yeah, it's nasty.
    
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- Hardinawetdiaper
  
  5 years ago
  
  Some people have websites that have a photo of a female as there profile pic and
  When you start messaging them, after a while you find out that your talking to a guy, it's really rare though but it happends and fricking annoying.
  
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    5 years ago
    
    Aw jeez. The people that pretend to be women piss me off. Especially on this site. They make it obvious when they say crap like "all women love*insert sexual activity here that not all people like* " and they encorage behavior/give advice that could potentially get the OP into deep shit.
    
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    - Hardinawetdiaper
      
      5 years ago
      
      Yeah I know right
      
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TerriAngel

5 years ago

Guys sometimes think it's impressive.
They want a reaction.
The old saying thinking with the wrong head.
They think it's a big deal and quite a topic of fascination.
The mere sight of it will make you.
Scared.
Horney.
Curious.
Jealous.
If it makes you laugh, duck.
Try saying something like, that's nice, but.
I have a boyfriend,etc.
Or, if you feel safe.
Immaculate him.
He'll never do it again.
But, he may take it out on someone else.
Best bet, be polite.

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Holzman_67

5 years ago

If you view them as exhibitionists with fetishes it’s quite easy to understand

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  Not my cup of tea.
  
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  - Holzman_67
    
    5 years ago
    
    Ah right I getcha
    
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ApplePine

5 years ago

I don't understand why people send nudes. I live by the motto 'look with your eyes, not through a screen.'

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  I think part of it is that they're not scocially adjusted and looking for acceptance while also being horny/unable to get laid. I wish they knew that sending pics is not the route to go.
  
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TheBlindInquisitor

5 years ago

Because people can be assholes.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  That they are.
  
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nikkiclaire

5 years ago

Where are you meeting these people who insist on sending you nudes.

Perhaps stay off chatterbate.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  Various websites that range from fitness to gaming. Im starting to think that I should hold off on internet friends for a while if this is what's at the end of it.
  
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  - nikkiclaire
    
    5 years ago
    
    Good idea.
    
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ansh96

5 years ago

sapnu puas

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  So what's the point of this gibberish, ansh96? Does it have any significance to the thread?
  
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  - ansh96
    
    5 years ago
    
    No it's not gibberish nd hv very imp significance with this thread. Just Flip your phone upside down then read it. HAHAHAHA😂😂
    
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    - leggs91200
      
      5 years ago
      
      I have one of those old rotary dialer french phones. I went and turned it upside down, came back and tried to read that text of "sapnu puas" but it still didn't seem to make sense.
      
      Is there a special number i should call first?
      
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      - EnglishLad
        
        5 years ago
        
        Flick your finger downwards from the top of the screen and tap "auto-rotate". It sends it back to portrait mode so your phone screen won't rotate when you turn it.
        
        NB: It makes it a nightmare to watch videos on your phone though.
        
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        leggs91200
        
        5 years ago
        
        I was kidding. But yeah, cell phone screen rotation is a PITA, it works when you DON'T want it to.
        
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