Why do people focus on what i am saying more than how angry i feel

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y'know what PISSES ME OFF!? Everytime i say something, it could be anything at all, like "freakin troll" for example people will ASSUME, yes they will freakin ASSUME that i am angry because of what i said because they don't understand whether I can say "freakin troll" calmly or not and as a result I have to watch every single precise little word that i say more than i have to watch how angry i feel because people want to focus on what i am saying on whether they think i am angry or not, more than whether i actually feel angry or not and as a result i have to watch what i am saying and i DO NOT have to watch how angry I feel, but what ALSO pisses me off is that i could say something that SOUNDS calm while feeling angry and people will assume that i am CALM when i am actually ANGRY y'know why this pisses me off? because people are making about what i am saying more than it's about how i feel on whether they think i'm angry or not. is it normal that i think this everytime someone ASSUMES that i am pissed off because of something i said

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  • charli.m
    7 years ago

    Diddums.

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    I would consider you lucky. Just get into the habit of controlling your voice volume with certain people, and you're good.

    For me, being a female with a high voice, it doesn't matter how upset I am, I get that, "Awe she sounds so cute when mad," shit. Pisses me off so badly, especially those guys who purposely push my buttons just to see how upset I get.

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  • nothing647
    7 years ago

    Aw man, this is a tough one. You gotta realize some people just don't hear what you're saying. Maybe every other word, maybe every third word. They're just dazed out. For real, they're hearing Circus Music.

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    • Mhg8792
      7 years ago

      yeah and it really pisses me off, because they're making it all about what i am saying more than it is about how angry i feel

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