Why do people even do anal sex?

I enjoy vaginal sex, but my BF is the sort of guy who likes overdoing things over a short period of time, so I ended up sore after we spent most of our vacation week in bed.

Since I became sore, he kept nagging me to let him in through the back door. It felt sensitive, but not sexually stimulating. It could be painful if not done slow enough.

There was nothing good at all about it. Why do people like it at all? I guess it’s only something a guy would enjoy

It doesn’t feel good, but it’s kinky 4
It feels good for both 9
It feels good for the guy 8
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  • RoseIsabella

    I think I'd rather see a guy drop dead right in front on my face than ever let him have anal sex with me. I always answer the anal sex question the same way, I always say, "not unless you let me peg you first". Truth be told I'm not really interested in pegging anyone, but I've always said," what's good for the goose is good for the gander".

    I think you should dump your selfish, entitled sack of shit of a boyfriend. He's probably just another shitty tool who obviously watches too much pornography.

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    • Boojum

      I completely agree on the pegging thing.

      I recall saying the same thing a while back on here, and getting into a protracted (and, to me, mystifying) argument with some guy who seemed determined to believe that women's anuses are somehow completely different to the anuses of men.

      Actually, I would agree that they are (to some extent), but not in the way the idiot believed; women tend to be smaller than men, and that includes the diameter of their anal passage. So a man would most likely find it less challenging than a woman to accept any given diameter of object up their backside.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Also women don't have a prostate gland so I don't think it would be very pleasurable. I just firmly believe that I don't need to ever allow anyone to do anything painful, or otherwise undesirable to me. My body is not an object, and I don't exist for the purpose of satisfying the selfish pleasures of anyone.

        I really appreciate your response, and recognition that I, and women in general don't owe to anyone to consent to something I don't want to be done to my body, especially if it's not reciprocal.

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  • KholatKhult

    There’s no amount of money that would make me want to do anal. It seriously grosses me out. I pretend buttholes don’t exist. There’s no part of anal that interests me at all, not even in the slightest.

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  • SkullsNRoses

    Cis women who do anal are either masochists (aroused by pain) or just being pressured into it. It is completely normal to not want a penis shoved in your rectum and if your boyfriend won’t respect that it’s time to make him your ex.

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  • Boojum

    I'll start by saying I'm a straight guy, and anal sex has never interested me much. I've tried it (as in, being the active partner) a few times, and found it meh. If I'd ever been with a woman who was seriously into it (and they do exist), I would have obliged her, but vaginas have always felt much nicer to me.

    I think a lot of guys have the very much mistaken idea from porn that a guy can just cram his dick up the ol' poop-chute and pound away at will. Unfortunately, unlike the vagina, the anus and rectum are not self-lubricating, and this means anal penetration can be an uncomfortable and even painful experience for the woman if she also isn't aware that there's really no such thing as too much lube when doing anal. (And BTW, if you end up sore after prolonged vaginal sex, it sounds like you could use some lube for that too. There's no shame in that. Even if you remain very aroused mentally and have repeated orgasms while the dude is thrusting away for hours, if you get dehydrated, then the amount of vaginal secretions you produce is going to decrease.)

    Like I say, some women really enjoy anal sex. I think that's not only due to how people vary in what they find erotic, but also because of physiological variation in the genital-anal nerves. Some people seem to just be wired up so that stimulation of the anus feels very nice, and others aren't.

    As for why so many guys like it, I suspect that's partly due to it being so common in porn that it has become "normal", and partly due to them getting a kick out of violating a taboo that their Mommy put in their heads when they were very young.

    Like I said, I've never enjoyed it, and that's primarily because the main sensation for me was of the tight ring of the anal sphincter gripping my penile shaft; I felt nothing much at all on my glans, and that's where most of the nice sensations happen. Basically, it felt much the same to me as masturbating, and a woman can replicate those sensations with her hand without all the hassle of lube, going very slow, unpleasant smells and sights and the associated embarrassment on the part of the woman.

    I guess my mother just didn't work hard enough when toilet training me to instil that taboo about anything to do with bottoms and poop.

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  • Tommythecaty

    Peeps been doing it as long as humans have existed, why?

    Because you’re wrong and sexually naive that’s why.

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    I like to shove everything up my wife's ass. If I could fit the entire house it'd go up there.

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  • DADNSCAL

    It’s a good alternative when your girl’s on her period and your rocks are just so crazy hot that you have to get them off. My wife would enjoy it so what too. But you have to be careful and use a rubber and throw it away if you plan to go back into her pussy. One New Years we got drunk and I was alternating between her pussy and her ass and she got the mother of all vaginal infections that took her weeks of antibiotics to get rid of.

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    • 1WeirdGuy

      Yeah anal to puss only works in pornos because as soon as the porn girls finish they douche for 2 hours. We've gotten a bad infection from that too. Never again

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  • Hi4567

    I’m a girl and I enjoy it

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  • fatok

    I started banging asian whores in the ass in Vietnam and really enjoyed it.

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