Why do i want sex so bad?

I’m 19 years old, and the last few months I’ve been sooooo very horny. I mean, as a teenager I’ve always been rather horny. But it’s been like mating season for the last 3 or 4 months. I want sex so bad I can taste it. I’m a virgin and I’ve never had a girlfriend, and just masturbating doesn’t satisfy me anymore. It’s driving me crazy. I’m trying to work on college applications, preparing for SATs and all, but I’m really distracted. I swear I’m gonna blow.

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  • LornaMae

    Because you're 19. Simple as that.

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  • ToTheMoon

    Once you do finally get a root, and 5 seconds after you start, you will cum, you will probably be like "oh what that's it".

    See the chick is going to need more then 5 seconds so make sure you get her off too. Use your fingers, use your tongue.

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    • FIVE SECONDS!!!

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  • d0esnormalmatter

    Haha someone can relate finally! Welcome to teenage maleness desperate virgin syndrome. This was, is and will be me so I totally know what its like.

    As far as what you can actually do, not much really. If you actually start getting some, which I would recommend, that will only help a little, not nearly as much as most virgins think. It won't be like oh whew finally got some now I'm not so horny. It will be like oh shit now I got some and that's amazing so now I need more.

    Still though overtime It will get rid of your desperate virginess and it will subside overtime so it definently is better tot tey and get some action. As far as how to get that action, it kinda depends on your looks/body but I would learn to cold approach and also hop on tinder for starters. I have dealt with this quite a lot so feel free to ask me any more questions!

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    • megadriver

      I will agree that the constant, burning urge for sex does decrease after you've had many flicks with chicks, but getting sex for op shouldn't be that hard should it?

      I mean, when I was a university student I lied and it worked... I lied I had my own business, projected fake wealth and told everyone my C-class Mercedes was an S-class (Funny enough they have similar designsn) and girls would fall for it and the night was always great.

      Bonus points for exchange student parties. In Europe at least, exchange student is a code word for sex tourism.
      There it's just 2 things exchange student girls ask...

      1. Are you a dude?
      2. Are you prettier than the elephant man?

      If you score yes on both questions, chances are you are getting laid...

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      • I start university next year (I hope). I dropped out (my parents choice, not mine), so imma take the GED and SAT soon and start applying. I’m hoping to go to a traditional 4-year as opposed to a community college for the socialization (my parents are dickheads so I’ve never had any). Any tips for someone who has had 0 social life all my life?

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        • megadriver

          Good luck with university. Well, since you don't want to lie, then just focus on making a few friends first. It will be easier to randomly chat up a girl at a party, bar, or wherever you guys hang out when you are there with a group. Cause if you go alone, hunting to get laid - you'll just come off as a creep.

          Also when you make a few friends, they'll introduce you to more friends and you have a better chance meeting a nice girl that way. I met my former and current girlfriend like this. While hanging out with friends, and someone new joined in for a night out.
          But this goes more along the line of how to get a girlfriend. But in general it's best when you present the real you.

          Fastest way to get laid - exchange student parties. Go with your mates, mingle and profit.
          Or try tinder... Friend of mine says it works brilliantly. I've never tried it.

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      • d0esnormalmatter

        Idk how easy it is to get laid depends on many factors. It was and still is hard for me even though I have the height and muscle that most guys say is the reason they can't get laid.

        I think lying to get laid is unethical and misogynistic as hell and I would never do something that blatant to get laid. That's fucking horrible dude I don't know what your morals are but if your okay with that they are pretty out of whack to say the least.

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        • megadriver

          Weren't you crazy about sex and getting laid? I've used this trick for quick sex. I've never lied to any girls I want to have a serious relationship with.

          Our late teens and early 20s are the time for mistakes and dumb shit. Women see men's flaws very quickly.
          I was a broke-ass university student back then. I don't have a six-pack, nor the perfect beard almost every dude seems to have nowadays. If I let my beard grow out, I look like some WWII dropout... I didn't have money for the businessy shirts I now regularly wear, so my dress style was mediocre at best.
          My parents had to send me money, cause my part-time job wasn't paying enough and everything I could save went towards maintaining my Mercedes. I was also depressed as fuck half of the time and hated myself the other half.
          I only had one suit, one from my school graduation and I wore that when I wanted to get a girl interested.

          So ^that^ real me doesn't quite cut it, does it? If you were a hot chick, would you go out with a guy like that? If he is honest - you ignore him, cause he is a broke ass uni-boy going through a rough time, you lie you have a boyfriend and move on. But you meet this well dressed, well spoken dude with an S-class, a taste for fine whiskey, he treats you and talks about the Riviera, Monaco, Greece and other cool destinations... you are gonna get hooked.

          Like I said, I've used this only for easy sex. Cause lying only attracts golddiggers. Girlfriend material requires a completely different approach.

          Point still stands for exchange student girls, you don't even have to lie. They want the sex probably more than you do XD

          But when I enter a relationship with a woman, I am honest and I give my best to make the relationship work, so we can both be happy.

          In fact, when me and my girlfriend started dating 2 years ago, I kept the wealth part of my life hidden. Didn't tell her I have a cleaning/ gardening company, nor did I mention cars. She only knew I was a car salesman and had a 2005 C-class. It took some time for me to open up fully. I wanted her to like me for who I am, not for money. Now that I know her love hasn't changed, I am fully honest about everything that happens in our life.

          I ain't no saint, but my method of getting laid, when I was horny af is still a lot better than what most guys do and just get girls drunk, or act all artsy with PUA garbage and other nonsense, promise her the world and then shatter her dreams.

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          • d0esnormalmatter

            Yes I want sex really bad but no I won't lie just to get it! I actually give a fuck about this thing called be a decent human being! You really should try it some time! I can't believe you actually did this omg it's awful idk how you live with yourself I never could.

            You can't convince me that's okay no matter how many paragraphs you right. That's extremely deceptive, morally wrong and VERY misogynistic I don't care what anyone says!!!!!!

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            • megadriver

              I know it's wrong, but it's in the past now, the fuck do you want me to do about it?!

              You hating me for stupid shit I've done 6 years ago isn't gonna help anything. Also, I did learn from my mistakes, because I have looked back... But that's not good enough and I should probably get that hunting rifle of mine and put a bullet in my head right, cause I've lied my way into 2 girls beds?
              You know how many times I've had my heart broken by some bitch that cheated on me, toyed with my emotions, or tried to ruin my life? Enough to not want to date again. I've been blessed to have met my girlfriend, I love her and wish to spend the rest of my life with her. She's helped me become a better person in lots of ways.

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        • What megadriver does is none of my business but if I had to lie that much to get laid I would feel, idk I can’t think of the word, but just the fact that I couldn’t get laid without lying would make it less enjoyable I guess.

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          • d0esnormalmatter

            You don't care if he makes up shit about him just to get laid? Man morals are deteriorating very quickly on iin nowadays.

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            • I mean, I definitely think it’s pretty immoral. It’s just none of my business.

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