Why do i love my friend only when she is dating someone else??

So me and my friend were together a couple times before. But when we are together we feel nothing for each other. We recently broke up (again) and now all of the sudden those feelings are back, and strong. She says the same thing. Is this fucking normal??

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Comments ( 7 )
  • lc1988

    Oh the thrill of the chase.

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  • Tehboss

    not enough buttsex

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  • MissClaire

    You only want what you cant have because your ego tells you that you are better then the other guy/girl (whoever is dating your ex at the time) ;)
    It's not you, its just your ego. It will pass over time, just try to be happy for her/him because you know that your not the right person for them.

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  • Winter.Finale

    Always wanting what you cant have...

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  • BITCHPIEFUCKINGASS

    I like Tehboss's answer the best. >3>

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  • disthing

    Once you've got her, the chase is over, the passion's gone.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    There's several possibilities...

    1) You may be wanting what you can't have.

    2) Also... it's a "safe" desire. You know you can't have her so... you can't get hurt.

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