Why do i have absolutely no confidence?

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I go to this activities group twice a week.
Although I have been going there for quite a few months, I feel incredibly shy around the people there and I go so quiet. Because I'm so quiet I find it hard to make friends there.
Yesterday when I went there someone even said 'you look so lost' to me.
I don't think it's normal to have so little confidence and be scared around people. It is really getting me down.

Oh and to make it even worse, there's a guy there who likes me and I find it so scary to talk and my voice goes all quiet.

It's strange because around people I know at school, I'm not shy and I can talk for ages about anything..

I have no idea what to do. feeling so upset :(

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  • lillypoppy
    12 years ago

    you're just not in your comfort zone, if you can be outgoing at school then i think you're ok you just need to get out more

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  • AwkwardTurtle
    12 years ago

    Listen, all that is a little fear of the unknown. We all had it one time or another, and a little over-self analysis.
    Just because you are quiet, does not necessarily mean you are shy. You could think of it as not saying something until you have something good to say! (god knows more people should think before they speak lol)
    Shy around a guy that likes you? Maybe he thinks you're cute because you seen shy?
    Just be you, not the loudest in the group, but YOU!
    Also don't over analysis the way you come off, it will drive you crazy, trust me.

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  • YummyRee
    12 years ago

    Hmm, Idk maybe your a lil depressed or something get up get out and do something that makes you happy, or inspires you. Good Luck! :)

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