Why do i hate him :(

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So I've never done this before and excuse me if my post isn't totally understandable it's late and lots on the brain. Why do I hate my boyfriend? I'm not sure but he's the most loving, caring and giving guy I have ever met in my entire life, honestly I'm sure I'll never find another "him". I want nor need for nothing and he makes sure of that. He's not perfect by any means. He's a fetishy, crybaby for my attention that hates sports. Total dork, he's the type of person that never made friends in high school or college. I'm not the coolest person ever but I do have friends, don't need to be the center type but have my moments, social type. He's always under me and only turn to me when it comes to pretty much anything. I find myself just getting angry at him for no reason and don't want to talk, touch or be near him. The sound of his voice makes me cringe sometimes. But I know I love him and at the same time can't stand him. Any honest advice would be awesome. Thx for reading my post....

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  • (s)aint
    9 years ago

    Eh? What sort of distorted views do you have of love!?

    You don't love him.
    You love;
    The security of having someone.
    His love and the things he does for you.

    you cannot love another person based of how they treat you if you can not in fact stand the person. You got a guy that treats you like a princess when you in fact are a bottle of piss- Not worthy of his affection nor love.

    Dump him for HIS sake and find someone that suits better with your shallow personality.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    So do you mean you hate him for his needy behavior or that you resent his needy behavior? If you want to stay with him you should talk to him about all of this.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Sounds like the only reason you are with this guy is because you are afraid that if you leave him you will be alone. That maybe you won't find somebody else.
    I honestly couldn't understand much of what you were trying to say, "He's always under me and only turn to me when it comes to pretty much anything." WHAT???????????????, but I still think you two are as mismatched as a chicken and a hawk.

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    Sounds like a stressed relationship. Probably means that you love him less than you think you do. Time to make some new friends.

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  • Fall_leaves
    9 years ago

    Talk to him, tell him exactly what you wrote here because I'm sure there are qualities about you that annoy him as well.

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  • charli.m
    9 years ago

    You sure have a lot of negatives to throw at him...

    It sounds like a very unhealthy relationship.

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    • Crusades|
      9 years ago

      Not as unhealthy as an online relationship.

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      • charli.m
        9 years ago

        I'm sorry that you're jealous that no one has flown to the other side of the world to be with you.

        I'm sorry that no one would be willing to walk across the street to be with you.

        I'm sorry no one would hit the brakes if their car was speeding towards you.

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        • derpyderp
          9 years ago

          Hey! Come on now!
          I would definitely hit the brakes if my car was speeding toward CrudAIDS.

          I fucking love my cars & insurance excess ain't cheap...

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          • charli.m
            9 years ago

            :P

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          • Crusades|
            9 years ago

            I would pull your nerdy ass out of the car and curb stomp you into oblivion, GTA style.
            lmao you probably don't even own a car, geek.

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            • derpyderp
              9 years ago

              Fucking lol!
              Of course you would champ...
              You're my hero!

              & you're actually right.
              I don't own A car

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        • Crusades|
          9 years ago

          You had to meet someone from another continent because everyone else within your vicinity found you too ugly to be with.

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          • charli.m
            9 years ago

            Oh so predictable. I dont know why you think that is going to hurt me.

            Why are you so fixated on my relationship? Why is it so important to you?

            Clearly, you care a tad too much about me.

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        • (s)aint
          9 years ago

          +1

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      • Arm0se
        9 years ago

        Fuck you. I met my girlfriend online and we love each other more than anything.

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      • (s)aint
        9 years ago

        So where's that picture of you? I'll keep thinking that you are as ugly as you are on the inside.

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        • Crusades|
          9 years ago

          You shouldn't be talking about other people's appearance when you look like Morticia.

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          • (s)aint
            9 years ago

            1) Is that supposed to be an insult?
            2) I still don't see a picture from you so I will continue to assume that you are really ugly. Hopefully fat and in possession of a small dick too.

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            • Crusades|
              9 years ago

              1. It's not an insult, it's a fact.

              2. I think you're talking about kingofcarrotflowers. Your description fits him perfectly.

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  • Unimportant
    9 years ago

    Doesn't sound like the two of you suit each other.

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  • Misty86
    9 years ago

    Well thanks everyone for the honest responses and negative ones also lol. I have shown him this post and let me say that everything is on the up and up. People will have their opinion and well you know what they say about that which is why I posted this. Let me clear up the air a lil :). Out of the 3 yrs we've been together 2 of them he has used my car lived in my house and I've given him money to get where he is today. Honesty sometimes can make you stronger. I'm a woman that knows how to hold down her man regardless and only now is that clear to me because of him. You think he doesn't know my flaws as well as I knows my own lmao :D. He does for me because I am his ride or die and we've been through hell together. Sometimes the book is already open you just need to read the words that are in front of you. Thank you to all that were sincere in their post.

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