Why do i give so many fucks

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Ok now hear me out.... I'm not talking about sex when asking that, just a clarification.

I mean why do I care so much about other people? Why do I care about what they think, how they act, how I can help them, how they think about me, etc.

I envy those who have zero fucks about things like that. Like how can someone just walk away from an other who is mad? Or how can someone act without worrying about another person's feelings?

I find this so hard and difficult. I seriously don't understand how others can do that when my own inner critic is harsh with me if I even say something in the wrong tone. Am I really that weak to care so much about my interactions with others? Or am I just really overly self conscious?

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  • SkullsNRoses
    3 years ago

    Learning when to stop caring is something I’ve struggled with too these past years.

    Important questions to ask are, “What am I getting from this relationship?” (Not necessarily romances, friendships and family relationships too) and, “What do I have to gain from fighting this battle?”

    Basically, is it worth it? Is the potential reward worth the time and energy to get there? If the answer is no step two is finding the strength to walk away.

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