Why do i get turned on fantasizing my girlfriend with a stranger.

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For quite a while i have had fantasies of my girlfriend with other men in bed as i watch her. We have fantasized this in bed and it brings me to the edge and she says it turns her on that i would be there watching her. Its not humiliation or degrading i want, but just seeing her totally fulfilled and pleasured by a total stranger that thinks she is hot and does everything with her.. Maybe its that i want to see how she acts in bed from a non involvement but watching her turned on big time and not hold back even if he was bigger or better. I dont know but is it crazy? Thank you

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    Yes, a lot of couples have similar fantasies and practice this. the problem is trying to find the right third person.

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    • Its_In_My_Head
      12 years ago

      Yes i agree. I am sure trying to find the third person is more harder than actually doing this in reality. At least i am not the only one who thinks this. I would love to hear others who have done this and how to treat the first time doing it.

      Thanks !

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  • ddskdk99
    12 years ago

    Yes normal, I see nothing wrong with it. (I'm a girl FYI) BUT be cautious with her saying she is turned on by it! in her mind, yeah erotic and turned on, in real life...probably NOT. so FYI, lets not suggest adding someone in the mix. BUT lets get back to the thought at hand. Your watching your partner in full enjoyment mode. Men are visual. Porn is a billion dollar industry because they KNOW they'r market. You like to see her having a great time, it makes you happy and your very aroused by it. Suggestions could be...maybe...to have her watch porn on the laptop and get her self off while you watch from across the room. Have her use a toy in the same scenario. both would keep outsiders out and add spice to the bedroom.

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    • Its_In_My_Head
      12 years ago

      Hi DD,

      Yes i think that could be a start and see how it rolls then. Funny as it may be, we havent tried watching a porn together so maybe watching her get hot n wet and playin with her toy watching would also be a good excercise for this. She loves anal so i know what to look for if its online or a DVD.

      In bed last nite she was going totally wild again thinking i was watching her with a guy fucking her ass and cumming in there then she stroked my cock after and i cum massive.

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    Normal, but it can hurt a relationship sometimes. If you want to see her in pleasure without you could maybe convince her to masturbate in front of you before you get a stranger in there.

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  • Its_In_My_Head
    12 years ago

    Hi FocoUS,
    Yes i have watched her masturbate in total pleasure in front of me and use her toys too. She has rode them like it was another c*ck and she loved it especially me watching her do that and getting majorly turned on over it as well.
    I agree, it can hurt it if it goes beyond that, the "stranger" would have to know that its for that purpose of fun etc..

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    • TT22
      11 years ago

      my GF always cums harder whenever we fantasize her in a group sex with or without me. It takes her to another level of orgasm.

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