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I get sexual thoughts everywhere and anywhere. It disturbs me because I don’t even want them to happen they just pop out of no where and some are quite strange and absurd.
I don’t want to have sex or anything, but when I think of them it makes me strangely horny and I can’t figure out why?
And yes, I’m a virgin, but I don’t wanna have sex.
I feel like I should maybe see a doctor though.
You're normal. Lightly rub your clitoris at night. Orgasms are a good thing. Your mind is telling you that you need them.
What would you expect a doctor to do about this?
Humans are sexual beings. If we weren't interested in sex, our species would have gone extinct long ago.
From the time they're born, girls are subjected to all sorts of explicit and subtle messages saying that they shouldn't be interested in sex. Unfortunately, the animal part of your brain doesn't really give a damn about that, and it has different priorities than making sure Jesus loves you for your pure thoughts.
One of the quirks everyone has is that, the more we try _not_ to think about something, the more likely we are to think about exactly that. Accept that you're a human being and you are sexual. When you have a sexual thought, acknowledge it, but don't criticise yourself for it, and definitely don't keep count of how many you have in a day.
As others have said, masturbation is a good way to relieve sexual tension. Contrary to what religious freaks and generally ignorant people believe, masturbation is not harmful in any way, and it has many benefits. If you're not doing it already, do some research.
It's normal for whatever gender you are. It means that ur sexual feeling are quick to pop up. But nothing to worry about it.