Why do i feel like this?

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For a few months, I have been feeling up and down like when I am sad I am extremely sad, when I am happy I am really happy, others notice.

Just last year I have split up with my boy-friend, because I was not good enough for him, so anyways I keep looking at pictures of him via a fake account. I have a crush on this person who I have never met before?! I am just sick of all of this, I just want to let go of everything but if I do everything will shatter and will be had to put together.

Is this normal?

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  • xbookwormx
    7 years ago

    You should see a professional about those extreme mood swings. Just in case.

    I don't get what you mean about your boyfriend though. Did he tell you you weren't good enough or are you the one saying that? And is the same person you're crushing on without ever meeting the same guy you broke up with a year ago?

    Moving on from a person genuinely takes time. Try to distance yourself from him as much as possible and stop looking at pictures and every time you think about him try to distract yourself. Keep convincing yourself you don't care about him anymore till you believe it. (This actually works)

    But seriously the most important thing is for you to see someone about your mood swings, don't ignore it yeah? Best wishes.

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    • wazowski
      7 years ago

      Thank you so much, He would constantly call me fat and stuff.

      No the dude I am crushing on is not my ex, he is totally different.

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      • xbookwormx
        7 years ago

        Well if he used to do that then he's the one who doesn't deserve you. You deserve someone who won't make you feel less and who will love every single detail about you. And you'll find that someone believe me.

        And about the guy you're crushing on without ever meeting, that's actually pretty normal. I used to crush on a guy at my school and for the first few month I didn't even speak one word to him, just stalked him silently. He's my boyfriend for three years now. So what I'm saying is, crushing on this guy you never met is okay, however, looking at your ex boyfriend (who is a douchebag) isn't. You need to move on from him real soon, preferably before you develop stronger feelings for your crush. Hope things go well for you and again, don't ignore the whole extreme highs and lows thing xx

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  • sillygirl77
    7 years ago

    The extreme ups and down you mentioned that others notice could be something that you need treatment for. I'd suggest seeing a therapist.

    In terms of the breaking up, yes it does take time to get over the hurt feelings and wow he said you weren't good enough. That's horrible. Anyone who would say that or make you believe that somehow isn't good enough for you. I'm so sorry that you were made to feel that way. Even though it's easier said that done, do your best not to look at his pics because it will re-open wounds. Maybe this hurt is something you can talk about with a therapist too. In time you will feel better from the breakup and I'm also sure you'll find someone else!

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    • TurtleBurger
      7 years ago

      Pretty sure she's putting words in his mouth RE: not being good enough. I believe she's insecure, he probably got tired of it and moved onto someone healthier and she is beating herself up about it because she believes his reason is due to her not being good enough. Her obsessive stalker behavior would also indicate more mental instability other than mood swings.

      OP: see a therapist like sillygirl77 suggested. You need help. And please leave the poor guy alone, it's not his fault your relationship didn't work. Also, stop catfishing, it's not good for your mental health.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Let go and move on what your doing isn't healthy.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Maybe you're bipolar?

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    • wazowski
      7 years ago

      I don't think...

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  • Terence_the_viking
    7 years ago

    Seek help Extreme highs and lows will eventually destroy you.

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