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When my parents spend a lot of money on me i feel bad. idk. Like they got me shoes today and they werent cheap at all.i feel so bad even tho my dad said i deserved them. So is it normal to feel bad about that?
I think this shows that you aren't a spoiled brat and you know the true value of money. An idea could be to tell your parents what sort of clothes/shoes that you want and make sure that they are really cheap. This way they can go with their desire to buy stuff for you, but it doesn't have to be expensive.
Maybe you should do something special for them, like a chore you wouldn't normally do for a day. Then you'll be even. Also like others have said, show your gratitude.
I feel the same but there is a difference when my dad does such a thing he blames me like [ i spent alot on those shoes you don't know what i have been thourgh to buy you those shoes ] and when he calms down he says [ are you enjoying your shoes ?] and i'm like wtf ???
But still i feel awful , it all depends on how your life is and how your family members act !
maybe they just want to see you smile, you could do that without the shoes
Try to focus on feelings of gratitude for the kindness of your father and how blessed you are to have him.