Why do i feel bad about making life decisions?

Everytime I try to better myself there's always a negative outcome. And it feels like people are waiting to say I told you so. I even feel scared cutting friends off that are negative because I'll think I'll need them or end up with worst friends. It's discouraging to my life.l

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  • Nickvey

    i noticed the same thing all my life , make positive plans and watch them fail. its almost like we are living in a simulated world. what works best is doing things impulsive and dont ever tell anyone your plans. then they happen.

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  • e51pegasi

    Do you want to spend your life crippled with indecision & regret.

    A considered bad choice is better than no decision at all.

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  • Pumpurrnickel

    You need to have more confidence. The reality is that there isn't always a negative outcome. People don't care about every small mistake you make.

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  • bubsy

    That's why most people never make goals: they're terrified about failing them. Problem is, their lives eventually become miserable.

    You got to stop taking everything personally, and focus on the person you're most responsible for: your future self.

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  • SmokeEverything

    What is it that you believe will make you "better?"

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    • Not having certain people around that stress me. Being more idependant.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Maybe you need some help?

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