Why do i constantly think about sex?

So I'm a 19 year old girl and I'm a virgin. I've never even had a boyfriend so I have no experience whatsoever when it comes to sex or intimacy. However, I am constantly thinking about sex. I kid you not. I don't masturbate or anything I just sit there daybreaming about sex like all the time. For example if I see an actor that I like on TV I start to think what it would be like to have sex with him. It's not like I am constantly touching myself. Lol. I just sit there and think. Why is that?

Because you're a virgin and you crave sex. 119
Virgin or not, many people constanly think about sex. 357
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  • Gena45

    You just wonder what it must feel like.

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  • Curiosity. Everyone thinks about sex, virgin or not.

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  • equanimity

    You are normal. Although, I highly recommend you start having sex with yourself before you have sex with someone else. I know you didn't state that you are going to have it anytime soon, but you're getting to an age where it's becoming inevitable.

    Oh, and I want to point out that there is a difference between daydreaming about being intimate with someone and fantasizing about sex... and you didn't state that you get turned on when you think about it. If you are thinking about it all the time, but you're not at all turned on, then that might not be as "normal".

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    • Sorry I didn't state it. Lol yes I do get turned on. I just don't touch myself. I just imagine it. Thanks for the reply. Helped a lot.

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    • od4us2

      Very intelligent reply.

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  • DannyKanes

    Your baby clock has kicked in :)

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    • equanimity

      That kicks in a puberty; it's why we are fertile.

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  • EdsBitchX

    I was the exact same at your age. Right from the age of 16 til I met my current boyfriend at the age of 17 I constantly thought about it... I masturbated a lot, though. You need to figure out your own body and what your likes and dislikes are before you allow someone else to. It's completely normal, though!

    Don't let anyone make you feel bad for being a WOMAN, you're a sexual being. If you need any advice, I'm a sex therapist as well as clinical psychologist, so feel free to get in touch with me for a chat...

    Good luck & stay safe!

    EB x

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  • Curiosity. Never experienced it, so you're just curious as to how it feels.

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  • Seancaliforniaboy

    Anyone want to talk dirty?

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    • Imlovable

      I am always ready

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    • od4us2

      sure! I am always ready to talk dirty! LOL

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  • hotbutt27

    omg let me fuck you. please

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  • Why not ask someone in your
    Family to fuck you xxx

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  • DandyElfman

    Is this a serious question? Do you not understand basic human body functions? This is basic shit. TAKE A HEALTH CLASS! Do you really need SEX ED AGAIN?

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  • pittbull99heaven

    i think about it all the time! and daydream. one time i kissed my pillow thinking i was having sex with a guy! its totally normal! im a virgin also!

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  • spidercrowblaze18762

    Because u love sex u bitch!

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  • KeddersPrincess

    I'm kinda like that; a girl at age 19. But I masterbate, and it's not sex I think about but all the strange festishes I happen to have.

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  • MAIRzY

    I have sex 5times a day lol

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  • Abnormallynormal

    Sex is the best thing. Me and my gf workout that way. Many reps and many posistions! lol!

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  • tomperry

    It's normal to think about sex but not to be a virgin at 19. Get on with it, girl!

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    • pittbull99heaven

      well, thats idiotic! u should only hav sex once u get married!!! dork! cuz what if she get pregnant, then the dad says: ur pregnant? oh my god! dont talk to me! and never sees her again? then shes left with a baby 2 take care of!

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  • Blush123

    Sex is a beautiful thing. You should not be ashamed to think about it. There are so many wonderful positions, partners, settings, etc. the possibilities are endless. That's why we keep on fucking! hahahaha

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  • michgel

    Because you don't masturbate or have sex, so you never get relief, so your body craves it like it would if you didn't drink water. It's not gonna go away you should just give urself an orgasm so u can get over it already ok?

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  • OsamaBinDick

    If it helps, I am the exact same way! I'm also 19, but I have had sex before. However, I do not masturbate or whatever. I just sort of "daydream" about it like you do :)

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  • its okay to think about sex , so just chill

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  • All animals most basic and irresistable needs are survival and procreation. We must eat, drink, breath, and fuck... or render our species extinct.

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  • beckalar

    Im a 19year old girl with a boyfriend not a virgin and are always thinking about sex! All good things people say about sex are true and you problyalways think about it because you want it! Get a toy and have some fun!

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  • Saycheese

    Yep, I'm a girl and a virgin and I think about it quite a bit. But I hope to not think of it as much when I have a boyfriend; whenever that'll happen though.

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  • iheartbrady

    because im gay

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  • Moni10123

    My sis did the same thing. Wgen she got a boyfriend
    She was starting to stop because she was a virgin
    She never really felt love before by a boy.
    U should also talk to ur mom or dad about this
    And maybe they will help u to stop

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