Why do i attract violent people?

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Despite my username, I'm not that angry of a person. Sure I can be a bit intense at times but I barely fight and I barely have altercations. So why does it seem like I'm always friends with people that are fighters. Either physical or verbal. They always seem to get into altercations. I don't have an issue with each other. We would never fight or argue. It's kind of like we have a mutual respect for one another. But I just dont understand. If you attract what you are then what does that mean if I'm barely in fights of any sort

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    7 years ago

    There is a lot more to attraction than "you attract what you are". There are other personality traits that tend to coincide with violent and aggressive behavior that you may be overlooking.

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    You're not helpless to who you're friends with. Sure you have violent friends, but that's probably because you bond with people like that very easily. Also, as NeuroNeptunian said, you might not know how to spot certain traits when getting to know someone.

    If you want a wide variety of friends, then you got to be open to different personalities, because we encounter people every single day who may be potential friends, but have personalities we don't understand or need a little bit of effort to bond with.

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  • MichaelMyersindarkness
    7 years ago

    *Limps away strongly after the inevitable attack*

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  • yourdaughtersinmybasement
    7 years ago

    Try being someone else for a day, dress different, talk different and go someone different and talk to people you wouldn't normally talk to, see what happens.

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