Why do i attract people that i have absolutely 0 i interest in?

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I attract weirdos or women who just have no game or attractiveness. I been to 7 lesbian clubs, tried ALL dating sites n apps. Why he fuck does NO one make effort to get to know me. 99% of chicks on tinder etc are trashy mother fckers. I asked one cute chick out off my LGBT fb group as looks like we have a lot in common. She said I'd love to then 3 days later no reply and left me on seen, son of a bitch! Why are women so flakey and men wont leave me the fuck alone cause they think with that fugly cock 😪😤😤😤😤

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  • ellnell
    4 years ago

    I agree women just seem harder to get to know not just when it comes to dating but friendship as well. I've tried both dating and making friends with women (I am bisexual) nothing works, they'll text you for a while then just disappear if they even reply at all. Right now i'm dating another man. I don't know I think that us women are simply more careful and hard to get to know compared to men. It's like guys say we suck at intiative.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    4 years ago

    As a bisexual female here's one of the reasons I dont bother with women: Women are overly emotional, always need comfort over stupid things, are flaky, overly competitive over stupid things, and can't hold down a job to save her life. Men think about sex way too much, they're always trying to score, they're not emotional enough, and they're always taking about stupid shit that doesn't matter. However, once men reach their mid thirties, they throw away those annoying qualities about them so they can actually succeed in life. Women on the other hand, stay the same and keep focusing on the things I listed instead of moving up in life. They seem to want some sort of prince or princess Charming they can mooch from and are convinced that this Charming will solve all their problems . Lol I work hard to pay my mortgage, car, and the rest of my bills. I'm not going to let some gossiping freeloader mess that up. I'm not trying to put people in the same box here, nor do I believe that they're all like this, it's just something I've noticed in my neck of the woods in particular.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      Wow sounds very disheartening!!! Seems like the odds are I'll either be single forever given he fact I want nothing to do w men or I'll attracts some narcissistic bitch who tries to fck me up. I do NOT want to be w a man, and have him wanna stick it in 24/7. I wanted a niice, stable, compassionate female who was like a best friend and cared about my well being. Looks like they dont exists though? And I am living ina fairy tale world in my head

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  • d0esnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    How to avoid flaky women online is to talk to them for a long time before you actually meet up. This weeds out the flakier ones. You'll get less dates but the ones you get will not be shit so it's less frustrating.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      Interesting, I was told generally it's best to talk for a week before meeting up to see if there is chemistry

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      • d0esnormalmatter
        4 years ago

        I usually wouldn't go that long unless your a ways away. I say maybe 2 or 3 days at most, at least for tinder. On note serious sites than tinder maybe you could wait longer. But yeah, a high percentage of women who will agree to a date right away are flakey or at least mentally unstable in one way or another. You can still go for quick dates, which is what you do if you have a lot of options, but get ready for some to be disappointing.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago

          Well this chick wasnt on tinder, shes in my lez fb group.
          Also, I checked out her page, seems like she is an animal lover, works in horse dentistry and been a traveler. Accomplished a lot! Seems stable?

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          • d0esnormalmatter
            4 years ago

            Yeah idk if I can help you much as a lesbian because I'm straight and just based off what I know already, your dating strategy is gonna be totally different.

            My strategy is basically to cast a wide net. Tinder has by far the most women on it so I use that. I make a profile that shows off only my good attributes and use my natural attractiveness to get into as many conversations with 4/10 or above women and then I use flirting and gradual escalation tactics to try and get a date and go from there. I cast a wide net, its quantity over quality and I use the excat conversation and escalation strategy with every woman.

            But I have dozens of options every day and about 10 conversations going at once, and just not that many people are lesbian. So I can't tell you excatky what will work, but I do think it will take a more personalized approach and I would put more thought into your early interactions.

            In terms of if this one girl is stable, I couldn't tell you for sure but based off what you've told me, its less likely. Also I doubt there is much scamming and fake shit on homosexaul dating type stuff because the target demographic is so much smaller.

            But either way, if it doesn't cost you much, start small talking with her and get her phone number. I match with iffy and even mist likely fake profiles and then check and make sure ther fake just in case.

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