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Why did she share so much with me, keep me close, flirt with me and then this ?
Like telling me how much she thinks this other person is cute and how she wants to ask them out after telling me she loves me and thinks about me all day?? As if she was never acting that way with me ? Why would she just lead me on and go cold? Wtf, do girls do this all the time ?
As a woman, 3 reasons:
1. She loves you as a friend, and shares everything with you.
2. She may not know you have feelings for her. If you do, just tell her. Guys wait too long to express their emotions and we just wander off.
3. She wants to make you jealous in hopes that you will "chase" after her, and tell her you wouldn't want to live without her. See above. Just let her know if you like her. We love romance, hugs, kisses, cuddles.
She implied she liked me romantically and intimately, in a way that is incredibly clear. I considered this, but there’s nothing to misinterpret. I don’t know if she thinks I like her enough but it just seems strange. Maybe she needs extra adoration from multiple sources
Maybe she's just manipulative, fickle and/or loses interest in a guy quickly.
How long is her longest relationship?
Could be red flags that a relationship with her could be emotionally draining where you have to constantly put in extra effort and get little from her in return.
Her longest was six months, I think. And I’m not a guy. It wasn’t emotionally draining to talk at first but I don’t know where I went wrong.
Sorry, my mistake. Man, or woman, it doesn't matter.
It could become draining if you're the one putting in all the effort to make a relationship with her work.
Everyone tends to blame themselves when things go wrong because we view the object of our affection as being somehow flawless.
Women are complicated creatures. Mine directed the fault at me after she had a nightmare of me cheating.
Like the fuck? You know I didnt do it.
My ex-boyfriend woke up one morning, and immediately started complaining about a dream he had that I had sex with the next door neighbor! The first thing I said was, "eww, he's not my type". 🤢
He was truly a crazy person. I should have known better, because he always talked about how awful all of his exes were, and that is a big red flag! 😖
Well, maybe instead of trying to get into her pants you could see her as a real human. You're her friend, well at least she thinks you are. But you're not a real friend, you're just a "nice guy".
Not all girls do this. But those who do are very pathetic... no, actually, I just feel bad for them. That girl probably was bored and liked the attention you gave her. Normally girls like these are lonly and have personal problems.
I sometimes get approached by girls, some of them seem to giggle at me and find me cute.
If a girl is doing that, it means she belongs to the streets and you should give her ABSOLUTELY NO DIQK!
Maybe she's trying to make you jealous and see your reaction if she shows interest in someone else, or perhaps she's playing "hard to get" (which is an annoying, childish, and pointless game, but some people still play it, unfortunately).
I'm in sorta the same situation with a guy but not really. What I mean is he flirted with me, we video chatted, which is when he confessed he had feelings for me and I did to him. But since then, he has been messaging less often, (he still does) but I feel paranoid that he is going off me.
Did you say you're not a guy?
Then that's the answer, we love our girl friends even sometimes want to make love to them and want them around forever.
However, for a non lesbian we still want a guy in our life. There is a part that still likes being with a male.
Yeah it’s normal for girls to lose feelings really easily boys have to do a lot for girls to keep those feelings and keep those butterflies and when they lose them and think there’s somebody else that’s cute and think they could have better they go for it, I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and we have our battles but we always work them out, it’s always hard for any couple to stay together nowadays.