Why do girls always seem to have problems

When my girlfriend tells me stories it always seems to be about other girls that she doesn't like or a problem shes having at work. I know that she is a happy person but it seems that the only stories she seems to have are horrible and about something that someone did to her during the day. She called me today to tell me that her step sister took her cell phone charger and that her step sister is such a bitch. This lasted for 15 minutes and would have went on longer if I didn't say, you should confront her and break dance fight in bikinis. SO! my question is: is it normal for girlfriends to talk about mostly the negative parts of their day.

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Comments ( 21 )
  • dappled

    Everyone has problems. Girls talk them through with people they trust. Men bottle them up in a bid to seem macho and bulletproof. Just one of the many reasons men die younger.

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  • alv1592

    it's a known fact that females are more emotional than males. it's also a known fact that the estrogen in our brains make us talk more. so yeah, it's normal.

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  • ThePhilosopher23

    Both women and men have flaws, women are emotionally weak, talkative, and may have PMS (3/4 chance). The best thing you can do is try to listen or at least show concern so that she doesn't get mad that you don't care. Quick note: semen contains antidepressants and pain suppressors. Not saying you should, but if you're willing and she's willing, it should help shut her up.

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  • Mr.Pink

    i fucking hate it... all the time .. constantly.... if i didnt prefer a womans cleanliness and sex parts than i would be long gay

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  • istrawberry

    They just like to get things out, calm the fuck down dude. Just be a good boyfriend and listen to them -_-

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  • Thatguy777

    Hahahahahahahaha!!! EPIC WIN! What you said to here was pure WIN!

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  • SoccerStud88

    "you're a Power Puff girl you'll be aight."

    Just drop that whenever shes having problems...dont get too caught up in them haha

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  • Tehboss

    Because they are insane and i think it's just God's way of remembering us not to trust them

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  • chubbawubba69

    Get used to it. Women are unpleasant creatures. Their only saving grace is the wetland between their legs.

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  • They're all just bitches looking for money and shit,just ignore them or punch them in the damn mouth..

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    • thegildedfallacy

      Nice. Paragon of humanity right here!

      By the way, I really don't want anybody's money. At all.

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  • hellostrangers

    She sounds like a big BABY. waaah waaah waaah. She needs to learn people don't want to hear her whining. Act cold and indifferent when she complains, maybe she'll learn. She has to learn sometime, or she will wind up with no friends. No one wants to be around that!

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  • BoredGuy

    ball busting ungrateful downers

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  • Solution? Listen to her and try to help her out with her problems. I think it's great that she can talk to you about her problems like that, shows that she trusts you. You should do the same when you have problems. I guess she just needs to remove the negative before moving on to the positive.

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  • ashleynroy1

    My old BF would tell his friends to try to block girls out and just say that's terrible

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  • tenshii

    Definitely normal.
    For one, us girls just talk to our boyfriends/friends after a day. And personally, after school, I'd always call my boyfriend to tell him the horrible things in school! It may not be particularly nice but yes. He usually jus close an eye and say "ya I know"

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  • FocoUS

    It's not that we're negative. We just talk.

    The key part of this story is that she's a happy person. She's probably not even that bothered by some of the things she said to you. And talking does make us feel better. We vent.

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  • DannyKanes

    Break dance fight in bikinis? I'll have to remember that one :-D

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  • justaname

    Yer they do talk more about there issues, where most of us guys just get on with things and deal with it with out telling people.

    Maybe you need to start asking her what went well during her day or did anything nice happen. Change the topic focus.

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  • lillypoppy

    oh yeah i dunno if its normal but i used to do this to my poor bf when i got a new job :( my job was just so stressful at the time i didn't realize i brought that home with me he didn't really say anything but one day i seen the look on his face and then that was it..i just shut up and never really mentioned work again (the bad parts at least )i just ended up venting to other coworkers :)

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  • emilydoll

    Yes lol were emos

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