Why do a lot of people hate me and what should i do?

No one wants friends with me and they hate me I only have 2 or three friends I wear band tee's and black eyeliner that's why they hate me and I'm emo too well that's what they call me at school and my faimly

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  • carminepersico

    They hate you because you suck! Stop wearing makeup ya fairy!

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    • mysisterisbeautiful

      Fucking priceless!!! Love it.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    10/10 you're so self conscious that everything they do, you interpret as being against you. People generally are more into themselves then they are in paying attention to others. That's why not everyone would make a good cop or green beret or that kind of shit. Self awareness is easy, it's being aware of others that some people have a hard time with.

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  • thegypsysailor

    Somehow, I don't think wearing band tee's and black eyeliner is the only reason why they hate you. As a matter of fact (if the sitcoms can be believed) young teens who dress like that are usually quite popular.
    Not like I'd date you or anything, but I'm sure SOMEBODY thinks you look cool. So it's gotta be something else? Like being a member of IIN, perhaps?

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  • Avant-Garde

    It could be because you're an emo and the stereotypes that surround them. For instance, for many people, cutting, depression and suicide is synonymous with being an emo. Therefore, many parents don't won't their children to associate with anything to do with Emo, for fear that there children will turn into Emo.

    Another factor, is that some people are into emo simply because, they think it is cool (poseurs). This belief and action gives people who are actually in the movement a bad rep.

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  • RainbowFlash

    I guess it depends more on what you are doing...

    I just removed someone from my social media which is constant whiner. I would define her as an emo.. she complains for hours on end to hundreds of people about how she feels bad.. all for attention.

    Think of it this way, would you date yourself? Would you spend time around someone who acts just like you do? Take a good hard look in the mirror and if you don't like what you see.. change yourself.

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  • RoseIsabella

    THE SMITHS "How Soon Is Now?"

    I am the son
    and the heir
    of a shyness that is criminally vulgar
    I am the son and heir
    of nothing in particular

    You shut your mouth
    how can you say
    I go about things the wrong way
    I am human and I need to be loved
    just like everybody else does

    I am the son
    and the heir
    of a shyness that is criminally vulgar
    I am the son and the heir
    of nothing in particular

    You shut your mouth
    how can you say
    I go about things the wrong way
    I am human and I need to be loved
    just like everybody else does

    There's a club if you'd like to go
    you could meet somebody who really loves you
    so you go, and you stand on your own
    and you leave on your own
    and you go home, and you cry
    and you want to die

    When you say it's gonna happen "now"
    well, when exactly do you mean?
    see I've already waited too long
    and all my hope is gone

    You shut your mouth
    how can you say
    I go about things the wrong way
    I am human and I need to be loved
    just like everybody else does

    Writers: Steven Morrissey, Johnny Marr

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  • Negima93

    I had many people hate me in school for no reason. Except for the fact that I was small and a little whiny at times. Maybe it was because I was smart and over emotional, but it made me appreciate the few people that were my friends. Just appreciate the ones that are true to you

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  • PieGoblin^^

    Nothing wrong with wearing band shirts, I spend most of my time in my boyfriend's band shirts. They're kick ass and comfy. If you're a guy and wearing eyeliner though, I would suggest you knock it the fuck off before people start thinking you're a homo.

    I was also into the whole emo thing from the age 13 to about 17, till I grew up and realised there's a better way to express a hardcore type style than looking depressed and faggy all the time. Sack up, get some tattoos, and fuck what other people think. Just don't make it harder on yourself.

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  • Darkoil

    What's wrong with only having 3 friends?

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  • Natteulven

    Dunno, my understanding is that emo kids are all the rage these days. However it also depends on your age. If you're 24 and you still haven't grown the hell up, then yeah, that's why people don't really like you.

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  • XEmopandax

    Probably thnx

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