Why did my mom do this?

Okay so my boyfriend and i have been together for 9 months. We've always been aloud to spend the night with each other. We recently broke up for a month. We got back together and now my mom doesn't want us to spend the night with each other. My sister who is twenty one and her bf my age gets to stay days with each other. Why am i getting different treatment?

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  • joybird

    She probably knows you two are not going to last. You've probably told her things that he's said and she can't forgive him.

    You have to be careful what you tell your mother in case you get back together. It's like poisoning the water in the well and then asking her to drink from it.

    Why should she let him use you - as she sees it?

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  • Audrina

    Because she thinks he is a dick?

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  • Dad

    You get to sleep with your future husband FOREVER, some couples even get buried together.

    Don't spoil your younger years sleeping with your partner, these years are about going out with lots of friends and having fun.
    Too young to settle down.

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  • sissycakes

    first of all how old are you. second of all maybe someone or something made her scared you might get pregnant.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    Well you just siad your sister is 21 right? First does your sister live on her own or with your mom is one thing. Also if you are anywhere from age 17-19 that is kind of young to be spending the night with a guy.

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  • litnas

    Your mom is probably doing ti to protect you. If your mother doesn't like that guy, there is a very high chance that he is not good for you. your mother is much more experienced than you and she has seen attitudes and traits in him that have turn on her maternal instincts of protecting you. trust her and watch out that guy. i bet he is not the right one for you.

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  • Ono

    Why don't you ask her?

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  • aussiewolf

    sounds like your mum cares about you and just doesnt want you to get hurt again. chances are that once you break up, the relationship wont last much longer. prolly a good idea to talk to your mum about this to understand her reasoning.

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  • Scarecr0w

    She wants you to fuck her instead.

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