Why did he pick her !?

I kind of know where you're coming from.

I ended things with my ex bf because he finally admitted to me that he wasn't over his ex gf.

Afterwards he still contacted me saying he was confused. That he didnt know why cos she treated him badly, looked down on him and his family, took advantage of him and that his family and friends didnt like her and that they were so different.
Yet he tells me how amazing I am, how we are the same and he feels this is right, that his family and friends like me blah blah blah.

Ive cut contact with him now cos he told me he's contacted her. So I can't be that great!

What I would say is to just leave him to it. What I've realised is that only he knows what he is thinking and no one can change that. Maybe if you spend a bit of time away from him, he'll have time to miss you and realise what he could have had with you.

And maybe by that point, you'll have moved on and have decided that maybe he wasn't really the one for you.

Don't look down on yourself. If you realy believe that you'd be a better person because he is there, the relationship wouldn't work out becuase you would end up relying on him too much.

Go out and be yourself. Look out for yourself for the time being. Take this opportunity to do things for yourself.

I do know it's hard, I often too daydream about what could have been, cos everything seemed so right between me and my ex. His ex was our only issue, though it's one that cannot be ignored.

Just remember if its meant to be, it will be.

Do not wrap your value of yourself in another guy. That is just being boy crazy. Respect yourself first. When you can do that, your question will be irrelevant IMO.

we spend most of our lives imitating bad relationships so if you've found a good one right on

If you're right about how he feels about you, he'll come to you in time. But as a general rule, you shouldn't need to depend on guys to make you feel valued. I know it's hard not to, but you have to learn to love yourself enough that you aren't dependent on anyone else's love, ever. Because in the end, you are the only one who's going to be there for yourself your entire life, 100% guaranteed.

He probably just used you for sex in the past. Just cause he acts nice sometimes doesn't mean he's not a jerk. Forget about his ass and move on with your life. And don't just hook up with guys cause you like them or whatever. Respect yourself!

You hooked up a few times...? Are you sure that's not all he wanted from you? Just saying.

He probably feels scared to get back with you incase he gets hurt again......

Slap her

she puts out,simple.

he feels safe with her u guys been together too but u dropped him, now hes still the same as before jus got a gf,u only noticed what was good to u when u lost it

Doesn't matter whether you like the girlfriend, he likes herand that's all that matters.

We all know that Angelina Jolie is a bit nuts, but if Brad likes her, then why not?

If he really liked you... He'd be with You.

The facts are: He's NOT with you and he is NOT single.

Whether or not YOU like his girlfriend is irrelevant.

Believing that being with him would make you a better person, is just an excuse you are using to make yourself believe there is some altruistic reason for you two to be together, when in reality, it's just a load of crap.
You are the only one who can make YOU a better person, don't put that responsibility on others.

It's normal to still have feelings of affection for him is normal, but to act on them while he is still attached to somebody else just makes you a jerk.